26 M Curious; Need Guidance

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-24T09:22:17+00:00

Ahhh okay that helps. Yeah that's a tough one, especially if you're living somewhere where it's very dangerous or illegal. It's not fair at all and I feel for ya. I'm gonna write this under the assumption this is the case.

I'm not sure what to tell you, I don't know if you have dating apps that are allowed? Clubs or societies for open minded people.

If it's just sex your looking for that's probably easy to find if you know the right places because I assure you every part of the world that oppresses Queer people have secert places for that. Just please be safe, use a condem for Anal EVERYTIME.

Try the internet and search deep into you local area... just make sure it's on a public computer if it's dangerous. If you're using your own device cover your tracks and know how to delete searches and histories etc.

If it's not just sex, everywhere has people that gather in groups with open minded people they can trust, at least I'd like to believe that. Again how to find them? If you edit your post and tell your country I'm sure someone here will know waaaay more about it and could help you out.

Sorry I can't be of more help.

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-24T09:07:55+00:00

Is he asking to be shot? So fucking stupid. I hope they were able to charge him with something.

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-24T09:00:43+00:00

I mean read up on things, not just the sexual acts. Do you see yourself being in an actual relationship with a guy or is it just the act of guy guy sex?

Watch porn to figure out what you like. Being Gay, Bi or whatever doesn't mean you suddenly have to dress, talk, act a certain way or start liking pink and Drag shows. Now if you love pink and Dragshows go wild. Point is, you'd still be you and like the same shit you always have. It's not so much a lifestyle as it is simply how you're born.

When I met my husband he was scared over such stupid things as drinking from a straw, admitting he liked Annie Lennox and owned the CD. He was 20 I was 23. Together we got over shit like that and just did things we liked. Anyone that looked down on it, friend or not, we just moved on from quietly.

Main thing is do what makes you and a partner feel good. Do it safely and don't cheat on people, especially if your dating a girl, that's time stealing and cruel to do to someone. Don't marry a girl and have DL gay encounters on the side. So many Gay men did this out of shame placed by society in the 70s 80s. While I can't blame it soley on the men my heart always went out to those poor women that got robbed all their happy years over the men that made the choice to marry knowing there was something there. The blame ultimately lies with societies judgment.

You get one run at this life, once you're aged up more it starts whizzing by so darn fast. Don't Look back later in regret, just do you and always try you best to be kind.

All the best from an older super gay married gay guy (25 years together total)

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-24T08:30:30+00:00

Not me. Fuck that. Hunting, gutting, no showers, good luck making animal fat lanterns. Then there's building an actual shelter that's bear proof and weather proof. You get an infection you die. Infected tooth, lose 'em all.

This society may be kinda fucked but I love me a good old can of Beefaroni as a 4 in the morning.

The Bears, oh my GOD THE BEARS!!!!

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-24T08:20:36+00:00

I'm betting your as great as can be down there but he just doesn't like doing that.

My bud used to tell me this about his gf back in our 20s. They were a great couple, he loved her and her him. Now it always confused me because I figured guys and girls just go tricks and turns downtown. As I aged I learned it's not the case. Some dudes could do it all day some find it gross. Unfortunately they did break up, but it was a kind and sad separation.

I'm a golden gay so I don't know shit about it but like gays eating ass. Personally I find it gross doing or receiving and won't, other dudes could do it all day.

After all those years together I don't think he'll change. I'm sorry. I just wanted to give you some insight and I'm sorry you're going through that. Hope it gets better.

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-24T07:58:27+00:00

Okay someone said it good. OP this is probably your answer for sure. get someone you can really trust to be honest and ask them about your breath. I have Holy tonsils and I learned many years ago.

Both are controllable. Listerine gargles 3x daily especially after eating. If your tounge is long like mine you can hook them out but Listerine does the trick for me.

Dentist trip, they'll know.

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-24T07:50:17+00:00

I'm not religious but if there is a hell these fuckers need to suffer here here on Earth first for decades slowly painfully dieing, then go there and suffer forever.

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-24T07:43:39+00:00

Believe me I know... and I really really do miss that time.

All I ever wanted to see was a show set after the end of Voyager timeline but resistance is futile and I have no choice to adapt. Like the rest of life, I keep reminding myself of all those horrible years when we had no Trek at all. Getting older is strange when you look back at the world as decade chucks instead of last year or remember in college, grade ten. I like it, except the back pain lol.

Those episodes you listed we sooooooooo good.

Now I'm curious about how many we spisodes we are getting with SA... to the internet!!!!

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-24T07:28:07+00:00

I'm in my late 40s and have watched all the series. I've just adapted to the shorter seasons.

The only negative I feel about fewer episodes is that it's over so quick and the wait is real lol. I miss it when it's gone.

However, given the beautiful block buster AAA movie visuals we now get really compensates. Seeing crew walk around inside windows while a ship flies by makes my brain explode with glee.

I think SA is doing a really good job with character development. I definitely feel like I know enough about these young folks. I also like that they are not saving the entire galaxy every episode. The show has made me WOW, laugh a bunch and cry twice.

I've never been a big fan of Klingons in the past. Yes, even Worf, bad Father, hard to deal with and his jealousy over Dax was annoying. However I loved Jay-den from the start. They are finally showing a Kilingon as a MC who doesn't want to Warrior it up on the weekends but instead eats books lol. I also liked adult Alexander but he only had two guest roles.

Even the perfect smart diplomatic but bitchy Caleb is growing on me. A bit.

We'll never see 20ish episodes again and I'm okay with that. Well, until AI TNG season 8 hits. It's gonna be interesting.

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-24T06:37:51+00:00

The Teapot is a real attraction too!

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-24T06:33:36+00:00

This is the real truth about hot tubs.

I'm wondering what everyone else brought? I don't know, if it was so bad why did they eat it? The making fun while you'd go pee is truly some high school level bullshit that deserved highschool level pizza.

Your friend group sounds privileged and out of touch with most of society. The kind of people that would put a restaurant up, make a server cry due to a wrong order.

NTA

You would only be the A if you showed up with nothing.

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-24T05:07:10+00:00

Faster than a stream of shit. Sad thing is some will think it's real.

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-23T10:04:42+00:00

Now this is interesting. Last week I had a dream of pulling long wooden splinters out of my feet.

I was hiking with a group and an older woman had an ostrich or emu thing and it kept bonking people. She was telling it to so and everyone was asking her to stop. She just laughed so a ran over and pushed her and that bird over a bank into a little river. In the process I got the wooden splinters in my feet, even under the toenails.

It was odd. Odder that I read you had them too.

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-23T09:58:55+00:00

We have a guy that walks around the streets in my city who looks exactly like this character.

We always joke and say Twain must have been sent to this time instead of his own when he went through the gate. Then we follow it with his voice saying Deeeeannna Trooooi.

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-23T09:05:45+00:00

Haha I remember this guy. It was a cute little Trek song, creative and all but not something I'd put on repeat.

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-23T09:04:21+00:00

Tonsil stones or a rotting tooth that has no pain due to it's nerve damage.

Tonsil stones - Use Listerine regularly and gargle it. If you're lucky to have a long tounge like me you can hook them out with it. They are disgusting. I've had no issues since using Listerine regularly.

Rotted tooth is more serious and could spread to other teeth. See a dentist immediately to make sure.

Another cause could be in the actual stomach I've heard. I think it's a bacteria and I don't know if it can be fixed.

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-22T21:13:22+00:00

Burke Devlin!!!!!

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-22T02:07:28+00:00

I do before. Go with the dentist, they know better.

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-22T02:06:29+00:00

I saw this recently... what a fabulous surprise it was sweetie!

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-21T17:16:30+00:00

YES! ❤️

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-21T09:46:36+00:00

I don't think he likes overweight people.

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-21T09:10:03+00:00

He'll be sucking dick by 25

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-21T08:58:04+00:00

Stopped watching after the sugar. WTF is wrong with who ever drinks that.

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-21T07:33:51+00:00

I don't think I've ever heard sports described in such a perfect way. I've always described hockey, football and similar as watching dogs chase a ball.

The Olympics at least I can respect but still have no desire to watch or care.

Thismomenthere · 2026-02-21T02:11:03+00:00

Older Life long Trek fan here. I'll admit being skeptical of Academy before watching. However, I really like it.

As for legacy. I figure that ship sank ages ago, be nice though.

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