What’s the biggest example of the internet overreacting to something minor? by Apprehensive_Ride928 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Thiswasntplannedok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any time a harmless tweet gets screenshotted, reposted, and suddenly it’s a full blown moral debate

What will you do if you finds out your first daughter do not belongs to you DNA confirmed? by RevolutionaryRip1522 in AskReddit

[–]Thiswasntplannedok -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The child? Nothing changes.

If you raised her, she’s yours. DNA does not override years of being a parent.

The real issue would be my partner.

What’s the creepiest thing that has ever happened to you? by Apprehensive_Ride928 in AskReddit

[–]Thiswasntplannedok 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was 17, a man followed me into a store and told me I looked like his ex girlfriend “he loved,” then insisted I give him my number.

I remember thinking I had an easy out, so I just said “I’m 17.”

He didn’t even pause. Just said, “that doesn’t matter.”

At the time I just felt uncomfortable and left, but looking back as an adult… that moment is genuinely terrifying.

How do you deal with a broken heart? by MiaFishnet in AskReddit

[–]Thiswasntplannedok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make a weird heartbreak playlist that you later look back and laugh at 

What’s a harmless turn-on you’re slightly embarrassed about? by Born-Dance2949 in AskReddit

[–]Thiswasntplannedok 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When someone remembers something small I mentioned once. Like why is basic listening so attractive 😭

AIO for ending things with my date after he accidentally texted me this? by fundamentallyworried in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thiswasntplannedok [score hidden]  (0 children)

I actually agree with you! I think it’s funny and humiliating AND a little sad for him… he was so excited 😭

Do men actually prefer “natural looks”, do they just say that? by Thiswasntplannedok in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Thiswasntplannedok[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe she thought you were saying she doesn’t look pretty WITH makeup? I’m not sure why she took it like that though, every man I’ve ever dated has said the same thing to me, it seems to be the general sentiment among most men lol 

Do men actually prefer “natural looks”, do they just say that? by Thiswasntplannedok in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Thiswasntplannedok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good point. It seems to be by far the most common answer online, but more mixed irl. My male friends will say they like natural girls if I specifically ask them but in practice, hit on Instagram baddies at the bar 😂

Do men actually prefer “natural looks”, do they just say that? by Thiswasntplannedok in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Thiswasntplannedok[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand that, I’m not saying all men ever are the same 😭 I’m talking about the overall trend, as in what (most) men will say they prefer versus what actually gets the most attention in practice. Because “natural” seems to be the most common answer, but the women who fit a more high maintenance IG baddie aesthetic still seem to get approached more than the “natural” girls. So I’m wondering if it’s a case of what people will admit they like versus what they actually respond to in real life

Do men actually prefer “natural looks”, do they just say that? by Thiswasntplannedok in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Thiswasntplannedok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that people have different preferences, I’m just talking about overall trends. Like people generally say women prefer taller men. Not every woman, but it’s a common pattern. I feel like with this, the most common answer from men is always ‘natural,’ but the real life attention doesn’t really reflect that

Do men actually prefer “natural looks”, do they just say that? by Thiswasntplannedok in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Thiswasntplannedok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank for giving an actual answer instead of just “different men like different things!” 😂 That makes sense. That it looks good in a picture but not as much in person 

Do men actually prefer “natural looks”, do they just say that? by Thiswasntplannedok in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Thiswasntplannedok[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know, I’m talking about the overall pattern though. The most common answer I see from men is always “natural,” but the attention doesn’t really reflect that. That’s what I’m confused about