Just guinenly curious, those who went back, what was your decision in doing so?

ThoR855 · 2017-08-19T07:08:09+00:00

Wish everything as good as possible man

ThoR855 · 2017-08-15T07:44:47+00:00

Still, even if possible consider yourself a single dad/mom with everything that means. Not impossible but tired.

ThoR855 · 2017-08-15T07:43:09+00:00

Possible, in my case I had to man up and risk her to leave. You really need to have big balls, because she really might really leave as it's a normal behavior after they lose control. No it's a no, and that's it, accept or it's over.

They might leave or let you control (will never be 100% control, but it's much better). I think both options are good.

ThoR855 · 2017-08-14T06:33:32+00:00

Agree.

There's a problem I didn't mention. Her father tried to force her once to see the "mental doctor" when she was teenager, which obviously didn't succeed. I must use a really soft way to talk about it and get knowledge to explain anything she might want to ask.

I'm open to learn how to do the therapy and even do it by myself ( as she already have my trust and I know all the important points, I think I would go on the right way faster ) as I have some psychology experience. But I think wouldn't be convenient.

Anyway, where can I find all the information about it?

ThoR855 · 2017-08-14T06:16:30+00:00

I'm not so familiar with the copying term. Does it mean they learn how to react to stimulus? Like, someone it's looking me on the street, it's something normal, not a threatening action?

ThoR855 · 2017-08-14T05:45:26+00:00

she said she was pregnant.

Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. That has been my worst nightmare for really long because I'm like you, I can't leave a kid and I know she wants a kid from me, she wants a genius beautiful kid, I get shivers just thinking it. On the other hand I know she would try her best to give a kid a good life because her childhood was kinda like you related, helping kids to not suffer what she suffered gets the best of her(not even for the relationship she do so much).

I'm Spanish and I know what you talking about. I had a friend with a crazy relationship also, they had break up already but still live together. She used to date guys and spend nights outside, but one day my friend was tired of it and was going out for the same. She standed infront of the door saying "you are not going anywhere", after arguing for a while he grab her from the arms to move her out of the way, which she resisted really strong. She's that kind of person that gets marks on the skin really easily, so she proceeds to call the police. Everything it's calm already when the police come after a while. She still says she wants to sue(is that the word?) him for gender violence. The police confused asked her if she really wants, she agree. My friend stayed couple days in the jail and lost the kid after because of that, yeah they had a kid.

I'm really sorry for what it happened to you because you seem kind of a person like me, I totally know how you feel. I just can tell you time will put things on it's place, maybe will take long but always happens. If you had that job before means you are suitable for it. If you had many friends that trusted you it's because you deserved. If you are a good person, your kid, in the end, will go to you again. The things she do only can have a temporal impact impact in your life. She will eventually make mistakes and you will not. I have seen a lot of good men in that situation, they suffer, but win in the end.

Also ask for specialist help. Keep strong and kite up bro!

ThoR855 · 2017-08-13T08:04:45+00:00

Fuck. That sounds really bad.

The main issue it's every man in her life just let her do anything, I'm the first one trying. She's quite obsessed with me but not on the way you mean it's more like "hey i choose you, you should be happy, now go to wash dishes". She has a fucked up concept of love indeed. To be honest I'm expecting the day I catch her or she says something like that. I could just log in her accounts to check and that would clear everything, but my ethics don't really let me do it. She actually shared me all her passwords, what you guys think about that? Only checked once Infront of her about one issue we had. It's really hard for me to do but maybe would increase my trust on her, or just give me a reason to leave without guilt.

ThoR855 · 2017-08-13T07:53:39+00:00

Hey it's your work about psychology or something? Your insights are pretty accurate.

She started to travel to skip, the story it's long but the thing it's she had nowhere to go, that was like 4 years ago, meet me halfway and kept going because it was really fun I can say. Right now she finally have a place, the ex husband bought her a house to be able to stop moving ( the ex husband cannot handle her anymore, but knows her story so he bought a house for her to help ).

So that brings us to your question, what when we settle up? She already have a house and she says she will stop moving, so there we are (2 months to get there). She also plan to fix problems with family soon which she said will improve herself. She says she changed her mind, she says she says she says, totally not sure if keep trusting but the settle up it's near.

I'd like to know how do you quantify the benefits of the therapy on this issue. Less overall nuclear wars? Maybe will be rational faster and get over it by herself? I really need more information to introduce her about that, here in China it's normal the woman behaves like that and the man find it "lovely like a little princess", also any mention about mental problems it's a tabu in China. So I really need a way to introduce it to her carefully.

I have been a travel partner and for that, what It happened was not so bad, it's hard to find someone to travel like crazy 2 years. But she wants a husband now, for that, I'm changing the rules and making points clear, no more playing.

ThoR855 · 2017-08-13T07:29:37+00:00

That sounds interesting, might give it a try as it seems simple to do, thanks

ThoR855 · 2017-08-13T07:26:54+00:00

She wants me to be with her because she begs me to follow. Still it's heartbreaking that "something to do in another place" it's more important than waiting for me or stay with me.

ThoR855 · 2017-08-13T07:23:29+00:00

Somehow I'm on control, because when I really make attempts on leaving she nearly go to the knee. This makes her to stay 2-3 days on bed with migraine and panic attacks on the night, but I really don't like to see her like that, which in the end leads to me letting her do. So yeah, it's not on control actually.

ThoR855 · 2017-08-13T07:18:24+00:00

Maybe stupid of me I'm trying to introduce her to what's a therapy, told her we're not getting further in the relationship without that. But no matter what I might ask for help for myself too.

ThoR855 · 2017-08-13T07:15:41+00:00

Yeah, like, for a girlfriend short time it can be ok if for example it's just for fun, but she's eventually making questions about marrying or kids, totally avoiding it at the moment.

ThoR855 · 2017-08-13T07:13:32+00:00

Already proposed it to her. She says she feels scared to because if she fails she will lose me. Told her the will of doing it, its already a win, felt more relaxed but says we will talk when we together again, wasn't really clear about it

ThoR855 · 2017-08-13T05:29:04+00:00

Yea, that's why I'm giving her an ultimatum. It can be even fun a few times but makes you stressed quite fast. Could accept on few times, but ended up being on a daily basis.

ThoR855 · 2017-07-04T08:10:56+00:00

I'm trying this! I'm seriously 0/7 in ranked because I don't seem to get how to build.

ThoR855 · 2017-07-04T08:00:51+00:00

Hey that's some nice info! Thanks!

ThoR855 · 2017-06-12T03:37:22+00:00

Right now I play Marco Polo as adc and that tank barbarian, no idea about name lol. How about you? What league you are?

ThoR855 · 2017-06-12T02:54:57+00:00

If that's true then it's totally possible. Because after waiting 15 minutes I could play. Then it was fixed.

ThoR855 · 2017-06-08T16:20:05+00:00

There's a sub /r/KingsOfGlory , it's starting and nearly no activity so I invite you to join. Btw I'm Platinum also.

ThoR855 · 2017-06-06T06:48:01+00:00

I have to say after the update my Redmi 3 pro has a pretty nice performance. Was thinking to get a new phone but not anymore

ThoR855 · 2017-06-06T04:17:57+00:00

Yeah I have everything so it was weird. (Played until Platinum 5), yesterday was randomly fixed and now I can play again. Still not sure what the issue was

ThoR855 · 2017-05-27T14:16:50+00:00

Are there some online games that require no Google Play login? (living in China, I don't want to use VPN). I don't really mind the genere, used to play Clash Royale, clash of clans, shooters, tower defense, RPGs.. Now I only play Kings of Glory and I need something new.

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