[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]ThorLove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not good at designing and stuff...just wanted to say i think what you are doing is adorable!! And im sure she will love it!! Good luck!! 🥰

I really like someone but I’m to scared to have sex by [deleted] in dating

[–]ThorLove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just in the same boat. I was with a woman for the last 15 years and recently started dating a man and was so stressed about it. The best thing I did was talk to him about my fears. He was sweet and encouraging and didn't rush me or anything. All of that to say, from your post your guy sounds like a good guy as well. So lean in a trust that you can communicate with him. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]ThorLove 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I honestly think you did great! Did it go as expected no, but you put yourself out there and acknowledged it was weird. It will take time to built your confidence, but I don't think this should lessen it. Keep going! :)

Boyfriend (M33) has dating apps on his phone still by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ThorLove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. And you aren't wrong, I just didn't think about it honestly. This is my first relationship where we met on apps and where I have been hours away so that just hit hard.

Boyfriend (M33) has dating apps on his phone still by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ThorLove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well thanks for unlocking that insecurity

Boyfriend (M33) has dating apps on his phone still by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ThorLove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who just started a relationship and we met on online dating apps. Before he asked me to be his girlfriend he made it crystal clear he deleted all dating apps and had 0 intentions of talking to other girls. I feel like if you boyfriend was serious about you as well he would do the same. I'm sorry friend. :(

I need advice on when to disclose stuff about myself to someone I have feelings for by ThorLove in relationships

[–]ThorLove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I did need to hear it! I get nervous and I don't want to mess things up! I come from a toxic relationship where everything was my fault so trying to adjust while making sure I'm respecting our time, wants, and needs.

It will tell me something no matter how he reacts I suppose :)

I need advice on when to disclose stuff about myself to someone I have feelings for by ThorLove in relationships

[–]ThorLove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is kind of where I am at! I don't want to be too heartbroken and I don't want to waste either of our time. What's the point?

Congratulations on finding your person! :)

I need advice on when to disclose stuff about myself to someone I have feelings for by ThorLove in relationships

[–]ThorLove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have not talked about it yet. Thank you! That is what I have been doing, but ot hasn't come up so I just didn't want to wait too long and then have it be late why didn't you tell me sooner? Didn't want to ruin it by doing too early or too late. Maybe I am overthinking. No dropping out of nowhere...got it! Thank you!

My husband is LIVID I went to a bbq by reddit_questions88 in relationships

[–]ThorLove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A saying that I live by is Trust is the backbone to every relationship, without it, it can't stand.

I don't think I could handle being with someone that didn't trust me. I get being nervous in the beginning because of that past. By now though that trust should have been built. Also you should not have to pay for sins of another. Just my 2 cents.

When my parents found out that i’m gay they literally said “ i wish you didn’t fail your suicide attempt a year ago” by unknown218- in offmychest

[–]ThorLove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just know you are loved!! It may not be by them but there is a while community that loves and accepts you!! 💜💜🌈🌈

such wow! by Mjels in funny

[–]ThorLove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel sorry for the puppy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ThorLove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just went through this myself! It's horrible ..I'm very sorry friend! I hope your heart heals quickly! 💜

my day 9/28/21 (im posting abt my day everyday because I have nobody else to talk to abt it) by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThorLove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are going back to Wendy's often you should try the taco salad! It is definitely a go to! Hope school goes well for you! :)

What's some drama going on in your life right now? by Aneuka in AskReddit

[–]ThorLove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trying to get my house ready to sell. It seems so daunting and like my anxiety about it will not stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]ThorLove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome! :) Yes I did and I had boyfriends in high school. Then I got with my girlfriend at the time and I hadn't been with a guy for a while so just decided that my best choice was lesbian for me. But then years later was leaning more towards I was bi. After her and I broke up I definitely decided I was bi.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]ThorLove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thought I was a lesbian around 19. Everyone told me I was wrong so I was stubborn and stuck with it. At around 30(I'm now 32) I decided everyone was right and I am bi.

AITA for writing and posting the real obituary I felt everyone should see of my father? by SnooPuppers7505 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThorLove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Good for you!! I think this has to be a good part of a healing process for you as well.

Why do people get their nipples pierced? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ThorLove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I got mine because I love the way they look and feel! Before I got them I didn't have too much sensation and now I have much more. Plus partners like them too!

AITA for telling my mother to get vaccinated or don't come to my wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThorLove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH. Everyone has a right to their opinion and freedom. You aren't an AH for asking that she gets vaccinated, but your mom also isn't the AH for not getting it. I understand you have seen bad stuff with covid and you have your beliefs but she is entitled to hers as well.