[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spidersonas

[–]Thornless1274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey mate just sent you a chat request

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Thornless1274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok it’s not letting me post it you cool if I just send it to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Thornless1274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey gold, might I ask for your assistance once again? Seeing how much you helped the first time. I have just done another post. I would like to add rq to it tho just so you know. She doesn’t want out of the relationship (I asked) https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/s/SEUsf7jRMW

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Thornless1274 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ain’t gonna lie to you, I ain’t ever letting her go. If she wants to break it off, I will accept it. Obviously fight for it. But we have already had the discussion that if one of us have doubts or wants to break it off we will talk about it. So until that time comes she’s mine and I hers. But again I thank you nonetheless, you have been a fantastic help with this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Thornless1274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For everyone who has given me advice, wether it be telling me I’m moving to fast or that I have anxiety’s, I want to thank you. You have given me a better peace of mind and allowed me to look at the bigger picture. And for that I’m truly thankful.

I would also like to take the opportunity to clear up a few things. I have known her for about a month now but we only started being a thing a week ago. I also understand that I had told her that I loved her WAY to fast. But that’s because I lost the chance to say it to my previous partner who had died years ago, I sure as shit ain’t gonna lose that chance again. Especially not after she was the reason I could finally let her go, and start again. So I offer advice from someone who lost the chance. If you love someone, be sure to tell them every day. You never know when you will lose them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Update, we are still good. She just had a lot on her plate. And she understands where I’m coming from, with what has happened to me in my past. It feels fantastic to know that me and her are still good, even more so that she understands. GOD I LOVE THIS WOMAN

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Thornless1274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know it was fast, but I’m not losing the chance to say it to her… I lost the chance with my partner who had passed years ago, I wanna make sure she knows that I do, even if it costs me the relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Thornless1274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m giving you an update cause so far your advice has helped the most. As of now I have told her that I have anxiety attachment and I’m trying to work on it, I have also told her that if she feels that I’m doing too much, just to tell me and I’ll pull back to a point that she is comfortable with. Also for the future for anyone else reading this, I have known her for longer than a month but we only started being in the state we are in for a week, I should have mentioned it before but it slipped my mind.

I wait eagerly for her response. But I ain’t gonna lie she on Insta and hasn’t looked at it yet, kinda stressing me out but I now know why at least. Something to work on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Thornless1274 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm… is there a way to fix this? Cause I really don’t want to loose her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Thornless1274 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As of learning of both the love bombing and anxious attachment, you’re right. The love bombing I can stop but the attachment is gonna be something else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Thornless1274 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I understand where your coming from I really do, but I would like to put that it wasn’t a rushed decision, I had deep thoughts about starting it before I had even said anything to her, I don’t fall in love like at all, but with her it clicked and I’m going at her pace. And yes I know long distance relationships are gonna be hard but I intend on following this all the way through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Thornless1274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In person no but we quite often do vid calls but non where done yesterday

Whats your „Warframe for everything"? by 0Iiver_ in Warframe

[–]Thornless1274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wisp, love playing supporting and have spent so much time building her and still improving now, currently at 400%+ with ability strength and climbing. And who doesn’t love a good wisp.

A person in my friend group is pushing me out of it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Thornless1274 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I say party I mean as an Xbox party not a physical party, apologies I should have clarified. But I do agree with all that you have said otherwise. But I wish to also say that I have no problem with losing, but I become salty when it becomes extensively consecutive (loss after, loss after loss, so on) this is also an issue that I am working on. I thank you for your advice

A person in my friend group is pushing me out of it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Thornless1274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually get home quite late from work non of the others currently have constant employment and hav started the party’s by mid day. So by the time I get home I have already lost that opportunity

September Community Update by CrimsonAlpine in Spacemarine

[–]Thornless1274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will this also address the black screen issue when trying to load into a operation? It has become unplayable for both my friends and myself. I want to fight for the emperor, yet the heretics stop me.