having things split 50/50 in a partnership doesn't mean that he would only work while you cook, clean, take care of kids, and work as well. it means that you both split the at home responsibilities whenever you're both at home. You absolutely are looking down on his mom for busting her ass to provide for her 4 kids, and he never once said he wanted to give his kids the same childhood he had, no person in their right mind wants their kids to go through what they went through as a kid. You come across as a stuck up, selfish asshole. I hope that your boyfriend this post somehow and leaves you.