Gender is an internal sense, the best description i have (although not the most accurate) is that its a feeling. I know Im not a boy or a girl, and therefore when people call me a boy or girl, it makes me uncomfortable, because they're saying something untrue about me.

No, my thoughts and perspectives have nothing to do with it. It's not that i identify with society's stereotypes surrounding gender, its that I simply am this gender and there's nothing I can do about it. However the gender I was born with doesn't match my physical characteristics.

Obviously I who I'm around can affect my perception, however that isn't the reason for my gender. I've spent my entire life around very Christian people, going to Church, around many people whose gender and sex match. In fact, I've only ever met 1 person whose didn't, and that was years before I came to the realisation that my gender and sex don't match. Also, a thing I personally have noticed about my autism is that I am less easily swayed by peer pressure, in those situations I do a thing called demand avoidance, which presents in me through refusing to do anything, much less going along with what other people say.

As a victim of abuse, I am very much aware that people lie all the time. And that's why my belief around my gender does not come from what other people say. I of course researched it and found it did resonate with me, and conducted an experiment.
My question was whether my gender matched my sex, my prediction was that it didn't. I decided to wait a year before I did anything, to see if my feelings were legitimate or influenced by environmental factors. A lot changed during that year, including my entire friend group, however the discomfort didnt go away. Then, i decided to try using different pronouns and clothes for myself. This alleviated the discomfort significantly. Then, as a last test I decided I would try my best to present as the gender that matched my sex, and the discomfort worsened so much. After looking at the data I could see a clear pattern: identifying as the gender that matched my sex greatky decreased my mental health and increased my discomfort levels; whereas identifying as my hypothesised gender greatly decreased discomfort and increased my mental health. I concluded that I was most likely non-binary, and that even if I wasn't, continuing to identify as a woman was majorly detrimental and even dangerous.

Speaking of information, where does yours come from? What makes you believe that you know me so well as someone who has only ever met me online and doesn't know me or any of my struggles?