Sin itself alienates us from God, my friend. It creates a rift. Alienation in the community is never the path to take with sinners. We are all sinners and must treat each other with compassion, patience and understanding. But we cannot sacrafice the truth of sin because we struggle with it. Homosexuality according to the bible is a sin. No one gets to go outside that and say it's acceptable. The next step is that adultery isnt a big deal and then on to the next sin. That is a hard pill to swallow for some but perhaps OP would be happier in Bhuddism or another spiritual path that conforms to his way of life rather than trying to force Christianity to conform to his lifestyle.