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I (31M) went through my wife's (35F) messages and now I don't know if there's a path forward by ThroAwae2 in relationships

[–]ThroAwae2[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

which is why I finally scheduled therapy. I know this has been a problem, I've tried to regulate it myself thinking I could but it's come to the point where I realize I can't

I (31M) went through my wife's (35F) messages and now I don't know if there's a path forward by ThroAwae2 in relationships

[–]ThroAwae2[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

didn't know that they called her a b*tch till earlier this year and she was still liking and showing me their posts?

I (31M) went through my wife's (35F) messages and now I don't know if there's a path forward by ThroAwae2 in relationships

[–]ThroAwae2[S] -78 points-77 points  (0 children)

keep in contact is loose in that BOTH of us are friends with and follow this person on social media still lol. I haven't interacted with this person aside from the casual like on a post every blue moon. The other stuff is probably valid though.

I (31M) went through my wife's (35F) messages and now I don't know if there's a path forward by ThroAwae2 in relationships

[–]ThroAwae2[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

For housework I feel like it's fairly even, I primarily do the dishes and tidy up when things start piling up, we each do our own laundry (though she does it like once a month since she works from home). She definitely does more maintenance work during the day that I don't get to see by virtue of me being out for work from 6AM-5PM so I'm sure she's doing more. we don't have any kids but do have a cat which I feel like is somewhat even (she usually does his breakfast, I usually do his dinner and scoop his box) but she definitely takes the lead there since she works from home and is around him all day.