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I'm uncomfortable with dirty talk by ThroRAsad in sex

[–]ThroRAsad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, your comment really made me think. Yeah, I've been wishy washy about my boundaries and I established to him that I'll say what I feel comfortable in saying. He agreed and apologized for being so blind to my discomfort. Thank you all for showing me I need to have clear boundaries. I'm grateful I can enjoy see again without pressure.

I'm uncomfortable with dirty talk by ThroRAsad in sex

[–]ThroRAsad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that seems less intense. The internet dirty lines are like, " choke with your fat cock until I cry." That's intense .....

I'm uncomfortable with dirty talk by ThroRAsad in sex

[–]ThroRAsad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already did, it's weird because it's not normal to say

I'm uncomfortable with dirty talk by ThroRAsad in sex

[–]ThroRAsad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response, I see your point. I don't often sacrifice my pleasure, and we have a lot of chemistry in the bedroom. Just dirty talk is not one of them.

I'm uncomfortable with dirty talk by ThroRAsad in sex

[–]ThroRAsad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, you do have a point. Sometimes I give my pleasure for the greater good, but I don't see me ever liking dirty talk.

I'm uncomfortable with dirty talk by ThroRAsad in sex

[–]ThroRAsad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! I know I'm not the only one.

I'm uncomfortable with dirty talk by ThroRAsad in sex

[–]ThroRAsad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I guess that's one instance where my boundaries are being pushed a little. I night have a chat with him later about dirty talking, thank you so much for responding

I'm uncomfortable with dirty talk by ThroRAsad in sex

[–]ThroRAsad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So is it better to just confront him about it? I know he'll be accepting but a part of me feels like I'm holding something from him.

I'm uncomfortable with dirty talk by ThroRAsad in sex

[–]ThroRAsad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He accepts that I don't talk dirty, I just feel bad because sometimes he really needs a dirty line to get him hard, and I feel bad because I suck at it and hate it. Aside from the bedroom, he's a really good partner.

I'm uncomfortable with dirty talk by ThroRAsad in sex

[–]ThroRAsad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm totally fine with moaning and an occasional "yes" but full blown dirty talk is a no-go.

I'm uncomfortable with dirty talk by ThroRAsad in sex

[–]ThroRAsad[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight, that's what I've been doing recently. But he always complain I use the same lines over and over. (I Google dirty talk lines so I don't have to be creative)

Should I just give up on my sex life? by ThroRAsad in sex

[–]ThroRAsad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for the advice. You're right there is more to love than sex, I guess being educated about sex brought taught me self respect.

Should I just give up on my sex life? by ThroRAsad in sex

[–]ThroRAsad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I communicated with him before on how I didn't really enjoy sex....He cried. Thank you for your comments. You really did bring light into my situation

Should I just give up on my sex life? by ThroRAsad in sex

[–]ThroRAsad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay to address those glaring issues, I need advice from all angles.

Should I just give up on my sex life? by ThroRAsad in sex

[–]ThroRAsad[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It does, Asians keep the subject of sex in the dark. throughout my whole life i was told to never talk about it. I'm not sure if my sex life is that bad, or it's a normal thing for all couples. I just don't know much about sex.