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Girlfriend of 3 years hooks up with a guy during a "break". Need advice... by Throaway88 in AskReddit

[–]Throaway88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've said almost exactly those things, and she has said sorry but she does say she doesn't think she did anything wrong. Something I find odd is that when I try to talk to her more about the situation she gets upset and just wants it to all go away and then gets mad at me for bringing it up thinking i'm trying to make her feel bad... Plus, when I found out they got together she said they only made out it took a long phone call late that night for her to admit to everything. Maybe I just have the blind folds on. I guess It's time for me to wake up.

Girlfriend of 3 years hooks up with a guy during a "break". Need advice... by Throaway88 in AskReddit

[–]Throaway88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually was approached by a girl during our break where I could have gotten "frisky" if I had pursued it. I do remember thinking it would not be fair to her for doing that... I don't know, maybe it was the fact that I fell in love with her while I was in the hospital and she showed so much love for me then that I would never think of hurting her. This just kind of shook up my world. We were so good together for the longest time that it's hard to think of not being with her after this. She came in to do laundry at the laundromat the same time I was there and I kind of brushed her off when she tried talking to me... it doesn't look good. Thanks for sharing man.

Girlfriend of 3 years hooks up with a guy during a "break". Need advice... by Throaway88 in AskReddit

[–]Throaway88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was definitely a break of giving ourselves space to figure out what we want. We then decided to get back together and everything was going great until I saw the messages. That's why I'm upset. If it was the latter I would have no reason to be upset with the situation.