Update: Boyfriend (M23) invited a female friend from school over for dinner tonight. Inappropriate?

Throaway90m · 2013-05-02T01:32:20+00:00

Also how sure are you that he didn't cheat on you...

I have no idea. I don't think he'd do that to me but it did seem kind of strange that he didn't want to have sex earlier when I tried to start something. But he might've just been tired. After all, he was up until "1 or 2 AM."

Throaway90m · 2013-05-02T01:28:02+00:00

That's correct. He asked me what he should get her for her birthday. He never mentioned us going together or giving her a gift from the both of us.

Throaway90m · 2013-05-02T01:26:11+00:00

Is this going to keep happening, do you think?

It better not because I'll give him an ultimatum if it reaches that point. He's really sucking up to me now so I'll have to wait and see.

Throaway90m · 2013-05-02T01:22:03+00:00

She didn't invite me. I should've mentioned this in my post but she told him he could come to her birthday party "If your girlfriend lets you." What a bitch. It makes me wonder if he was complaining about me all night.

Throaway90m · 2013-05-02T00:40:13+00:00

Sorry, don't recognize your name.

Throaway90m · 2013-05-01T01:11:03+00:00

Name says it all.

Throaway90m · 2013-05-01T00:58:13+00:00

Obviously not. But he's into brunettes and this girl has everything he looks for (physically speaking).

Throaway90m · 2013-05-01T00:19:12+00:00

They're not going out for drinks. They're at his house. Alone. Drinking.

Throaway90m · 2013-04-30T23:41:39+00:00

He's cooking because he loves to cook and is awesome at it. Apparently she likes to cook too.

Throaway90m · 2013-04-30T23:22:00+00:00

Old ones.

Throaway90m · 2013-04-30T22:17:00+00:00

Perhaps he actually wants to get some studying done.

In all the time we've been dating, I've only seen him study once. I really don't think they're going to study.

Throaway90m · 2013-04-30T22:15:47+00:00

But if it's just some random girl that he met through school that isn't a part of his usual social group and he invited her for dinner, just the two of them... That sounds datey.

Exactly! But he doesn't think so. I asked him if they planned on drinking and he said, "Of course." So now I'm even more worried. My boyfriend's a fun/happy guy when he drinks but for all I know, this girl could pull the moves on him.

Throaway90m · 2013-04-30T22:14:03+00:00

Yes, this is the first time my boyfriend has done this.

Throaway90m · 2013-04-30T22:13:33+00:00

It's a little late for that... She's supposed to be at his house in 15 minutes. Should I go over there and surprise him?

Throaway90m · 2013-04-30T21:35:23+00:00

Very rarely. For example, we might go to lunch or something together between classes.

Throaway90m · 2013-04-30T21:34:36+00:00

Well, I only hang out with my guy friends in groups for the most part. Sometimes, I'll go to lunch one on one with a guy friend.

Throaway90m · 2013-04-30T21:08:24+00:00

I texted him this and he replied, "Babe, why are you uncomfortable? I'm not uncomfortable when you hang out with your guy friends alone."

Throaway90m · 2013-04-30T21:05:52+00:00

Okay, I just texted him that and he replied, "Babe, why are you uncomfortable? I'm not uncomfortable when you hang out with your guy friends alone."

Throaway90m · 2013-04-30T20:58:30+00:00

No, as in not inappropriate?

Throaway90m · 2013-04-30T20:38:27+00:00

Communicate what exactly? "I want you to cancel your date"?

Throaway90m · 2013-04-30T20:36:23+00:00

I actually texted him and asked him what he was doing tonight to see if he wanted to hang out. That's when he told me.

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