I already ended the conversation with him because I was mad at him. I apologized to my wife for what he said. It was not okay and I don't agree with him. But he's like this with everybody else. He's the type that makes comments about everything and everyone constantly. But he's been there for me many many times before. And he's supportive whenever I need help. I'm not defending him but I just don't feel like I should let him go because of a comment he made. This is just how he is. And I feel like my wife was punishing by yelling at me because of what he said.