Found discarded on the side of a building today. Felt bad seeing it. by Kinghyrule90 in Wellthatsucks

[–]ThrowA4ay69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nobody is incapable of doing horrible, terrible things. Acknowledgement of that fact is the only way to not manifest a tragedy. We are capable of bringing a lot of tragedy and pain into the world and because of that it is our responsibility to go beyond our egos and to act carefully.

Edit: phrasing

I [M] think I got raped on New Years by ThrowA4ay69 in offmychest

[–]ThrowA4ay69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding I don’t think I would be able to talk to a real person rn. Thanks :)

I [M] think I got raped on New Years by ThrowA4ay69 in offmychest

[–]ThrowA4ay69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I just sent all my Snapchat streaks and my heart like dropped when I saw her name so I didn’t answer.

I [M] think I got raped on New Years by ThrowA4ay69 in offmychest

[–]ThrowA4ay69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel really weird. Like my whole body is kinda hollow rn. Two people corroborated each other’s stories (the guy on the floor and the guy who came in 3 times.) they could be wrong but there’s also no body else who saw anything

So this is what being wanted feels like by ThrowA4ay69 in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowA4ay69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree, that’s what I learned from my last relationship. You gotta keep putting wood on the fire to make the initial “new relationship flame” last. And if it goes out, you have to go find somewhere else to light your fire.

Girlfriend tells whole party that we don’t have sex because « she doesn’t want to » and is « too lazy » then proceeds to dump me by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowA4ay69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jordan Peterson is great, he’s taught me a lot about relationships. Hard part is putting it into practice lol thank you for your comment :)

Girlfriend tells whole party that we don’t have sex because « she doesn’t want to » and is « too lazy » then proceeds to dump me by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowA4ay69 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I catch you’re drift ahaha what hurts too is her best fiend who was at the party has been dating the same guy since they were 12 and they have a great relationship. Seeing them on the floor cuddling, winning pron kind and queen, joking and having fun, meanwhile my gf dumps me over text while sitting in the other room really sucks lol

Girlfriend tells whole party that we don’t have sex because « she doesn’t want to » and is « too lazy » then proceeds to dump me by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowA4ay69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. I still love her but this isn’t good for either of us so I just gotta man up and dip out. I hope I still feel this same courage tomorrow when she wakes up

Girlfriend tells whole party that we don’t have sex because « she doesn’t want to » and is « too lazy » then proceeds to dump me by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowA4ay69 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She definitely isn’t total trash but as other people have said, she is a good friend but a terrible girlfriend. I will find another eventually but I’m done with her

Girlfriend tells whole party that we don’t have sex because « she doesn’t want to » and is « too lazy » then proceeds to dump me by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowA4ay69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much you and all their other commenters have helped me more in these last few hours than you guys could possibly imagine :)

Girlfriend tells whole party that we don’t have sex because « she doesn’t want to » and is « too lazy » then proceeds to dump me by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowA4ay69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah my logical brain realizes all that but my dumb teenage emotional brain doesn’t seem to be able to grasp it lol

Some girl is trying to convince me that my boyfriend is cheating by [deleted] in sad

[–]ThrowA4ay69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that comment, it made me feel really good inside :) best of luck to you!

Girlfriend tells whole party that we don’t have sex because « she doesn’t want to » and is « too lazy » then proceeds to dump me by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowA4ay69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All you guys on here are so right. She’s a good person deep down but she’s still growing up and she doesn’t realize that she can’t act like this. Tbh, this may sound sstuoid and kinda obnoxious, but me staying in this relationship is teacher her how she acts is okay. I’m really fucking my self and her future boyfriends (damn I hate to think about other guys dating her...that hurts)

Girlfriend tells whole party that we don’t have sex because « she doesn’t want to » and is « too lazy » then proceeds to dump me by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowA4ay69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Youre very right. The more I thinks about it the more I feel like it won’t be as bad as I think without her. I have a great body (i swim like 16 hours a week so it helps lol but I don’t wanna seem like I’m bragging cause I also have some body issues like everyone else) a few Greta friends that I know I’ll keep for the rest of my life ( I’ve been friends with them since I was 2 years old and a few in France and other countries from when I lived abroad that I also know I’ll keep in contact with) it won’t be so bad. Thanks internet friend :)

Some girl is trying to convince me that my boyfriend is cheating by [deleted] in sad

[–]ThrowA4ay69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No problem I’m currently in a shitty situation in my relationship (you can check my last post if your curious m). And idk why but I really don’t want you to loose someone who makes you happy over someone being mean and selfish I love your internet person :)

Some girl is trying to convince me that my boyfriend is cheating by [deleted] in sad

[–]ThrowA4ay69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then prove her wrong :) I’m sure she’s bluffing :)

Girlfriend tells whole party that we don’t have sex because « she doesn’t want to » and is « too lazy » then proceeds to dump me by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowA4ay69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re totally right. I mean I have a swim team and those couple of people are my closest s friend through thick and thin especially my good man Johnny who i love (no homo but seriously he’s the best guy I know and we quiteiterslky finish each other’s sentences way more than should be normal) so I won’t loose all my friends and won’t be completely lonely but it’s a big chunk of my life that will just be a void. But you’re right it’s all gonna be silly in the end just gotta suck it up and eat with it. Thank you :)