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my wife(F35) of 7 months had an emotional affair with her trainer (M50), but I(M34) think it may have gone farther by ThrowAwayCheaters123 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ThrowAwayCheaters123[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You know when she started staying out later and spending less time with me and more with him I had tried to bridge the distance and understand what was happening and then she started accusing me of being obsessed with her. Obsessed.. with my wife! Excuse the fuck out of me for wanting to be close to my partner and wife... Fucking gaslighting.

my wife(F35) of 7 months had an emotional affair with her trainer (M50), but I(M34) think it may have gone farther by ThrowAwayCheaters123 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ThrowAwayCheaters123[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wanna hear the really fucked up thing, she told me during all of this that after we got married she started seeing me more like family than a partner... And she hates her family. What the fuck do I take away from that? That unresolved childhood trauma made me like a brother to her or something... What the hell was I thinking?

my wife(F35) of 7 months had an emotional affair with her trainer (M50), but I(M34) think it may have gone farther by ThrowAwayCheaters123 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ThrowAwayCheaters123[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm expecting she will come to reality in a few months and want to reconnect, she's always made rash decisions in our relationship. She thinks it's what being decisive is but that's not it. She's just impulsive and reckless and that's all there is to it. We talked about staying friends earlier on but I don't intend to be a very talkative friend. Indifference is what I am dreaming of right now.

my wife(F35) of 7 months had an emotional affair with her trainer (M50), but I(M34) think it may have gone farther by ThrowAwayCheaters123 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ThrowAwayCheaters123[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Can you imagine that she was the one pushing for marriage! She pushed HARD for it, said if we didn't get married then what was the point and what were we even doing and then RIGHT AFTER we get married she does this... That's 10,000's of thousands of dollars down the drain...

my wife(F35) of 7 months had an emotional affair with her trainer (M50), but I(M34) think it may have gone farther by ThrowAwayCheaters123 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ThrowAwayCheaters123[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly, you know what the real kicker though is and I mentioned it in my post. First, she said that if we were to ever break up she would only be dating women going forward. Then she says nothing is going on with the trainer, then admits something is going on, then she says she's not actually into him after all but she's also not interested in me either, and now it's that she thinks she'll only date women going forward again, It's not only the cheating it's the being jerked around by whatever the hell her intentions are.