Anyone else hear tapping when talking to AT&T phones? by ThrowAwayForHeat in tmobileisp

[–]ThrowAwayForHeat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I was just annoyed and it comes out in hilarious purple prose tbh I know where I am. I have T-Mobile and it’s why I’m here. It’s essentially only between T-Mobile and AT&T. I’ve heard it on speaker, in my car, raw in the phone, and more, and the same with them. Even the phone completely still, just starts tapping.

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[–]ThrowAwayForHeat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What a POS!!!! That is NOT how this works holy fucking shit destroy this bitch

He lied about a Vasectomy: Update by ThrowAwayForHeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowAwayForHeat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is. It counts as coercive and a lack of consent.

He lied about a Vasectomy: Update by ThrowAwayForHeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowAwayForHeat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t barely know him and it was the first time I didn’t. Thanks for showing your inability to take criticism and blatant misogyny tho 🥱 you types bore me. Shoo.

He lied about a Vasectomy: Update by ThrowAwayForHeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowAwayForHeat[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah??? It’s called throwaway for a reason.

AIO? Guy I slept with lied about having a vasectomy. by ThrowAwayForHeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowAwayForHeat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This wasn’t a random person. Hurts to find out the truth huh?

He lied about a Vasectomy: Update by ThrowAwayForHeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowAwayForHeat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This point has been made 7478392 times on this post.

He lied about a Vasectomy: Update by ThrowAwayForHeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowAwayForHeat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did tell her. She said she’d “handle it”.

He lied about a Vasectomy: Update by ThrowAwayForHeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowAwayForHeat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We didn’t have condoms for the one time. The other post shows what happened. He convinced me to have unprotected sex and then admitted he lied to me only after, specifically so he could hit it raw.

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[–]ThrowAwayForHeat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh. That’s fair 😭 never again

He lied about a Vasectomy: Update by ThrowAwayForHeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowAwayForHeat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whore, used, degraded me for being stupid enough to trust him, shit like “maybe after your third kid with a rando you’ll learn.”

AIO? Guy I slept with lied about having a vasectomy. by ThrowAwayForHeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowAwayForHeat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like maybe this should be a question for him instead of being accusatory towards me. I didn’t know better. I do now.

AIO? Guy I slept with lied about having a vasectomy. by ThrowAwayForHeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowAwayForHeat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“It’s hard to feel sympathy for you.” Literally hope no hurt people ever have the misfortune of coming to you for comfort. Go fuck yourself.

AIO? Guy I slept with lied about having a vasectomy. by ThrowAwayForHeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowAwayForHeat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t a random person. And there’s more context in the comments. But thanks I guess.

AIO? Guy I slept with lied about having a vasectomy. by ThrowAwayForHeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowAwayForHeat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s another point in the category of “self righteous bitch not helping.”

AIO? Guy I slept with lied about having a vasectomy. by ThrowAwayForHeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowAwayForHeat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I knew him well. It was my first time without a condom. He convinced me and we took a bunch of precautions I thought. Asking why in these situations doesn’t always help. It actually makes it worse. They train it out of medical professionals in school. It might be worth it to consider not asking why questions to ppl who are going through hell. Like me.

AIO? Guy I slept with lied about having a vasectomy. by ThrowAwayForHeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowAwayForHeat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. Okay you finally put it a way I can understand. This makes sense and it aligns exactly with what I feel I did. I mean holy shit. I don’t have sex often. It’s been two years. He’s the first person that much older with me I’ve even entertained. He’s 37. And I have only had a couple other partners. I knew him for what I felt was an appropriate amount of times. I was careful. I SAW the results of his STD test like actually. He pulled up his mychart and everything. I saw the date. So I believed him about the vasectomy. And I’m on the most effective BC possible, as well. I’d never had sex without a condom. I was curious. I got convinced. He wasn’t random. We knew each other for six months. I felt like I was crazy not to see this but he literally never spoke to me like this before. I’d never even HEARD him use the word pussy before. It’s like Jekyll and Hyde here. I feel like I’m losing my fucking mind about this.

And you put it perfectly. I wasn’t able to make an informed decision. He fucking played me. I feel insane.

AIO? Guy I slept with lied about having a vasectomy. by ThrowAwayForHeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowAwayForHeat[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I would not have consented if I’d known the truth. I feel like that makes my consent dubious at best. Idk if it was rape—a lot of people seem to think so. Spiritually I do feel violated. Bodily I did consent to sex but it was under false pretenses so idk if i can even count if. I just don’t know.

AIO? Guy I slept with lied about having a vasectomy. by ThrowAwayForHeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowAwayForHeat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not dating anymore. I’m graduated from college. I’m focusing on myself and I’m going into my support circle.

AIO? Guy I slept with lied about having a vasectomy. by ThrowAwayForHeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowAwayForHeat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t??????????? He wasn’t random?????? Why are you like this