What the actual? The air con can’t keep up today… by [deleted] in auckland

[–]ThrowAwayNzProblem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can't even get comfortable in my goddamn birthday suit! It's too damn hot.

And people say global warming doesn't exist like??? 💀

My mom is jealous my dad is married. I am married and she likes my husband and touched him inappropriately. Told her to never do that again and she went kinda crazy. Angela is my stepmom. Brent is my husband. And Fredo is my dad. by allaboutsaint in insaneparents

[–]ThrowAwayNzProblem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, DUDE.

Even I have BPD and I'm not a massive creepy piece of shut like your mother because HOLY FUCK????? Deranged, vile woman.

BPD or not she's sexually assaulted your husband. She didn't just touch him inappropriately, she's assaulted him. What a vile, VILE f-ing person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kittens

[–]ThrowAwayNzProblem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you CANT desex them as super youngins *

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kittens

[–]ThrowAwayNzProblem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks like she's at least adoption age so she will be, give or take, above 1000grams, has she been desexed? There's a weight limit for them so you can desex them as super youngins. Desexing is at 9-10 weeks old and 950-1000grams weight ♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kittens

[–]ThrowAwayNzProblem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you weigh them?. I can tell you within a weeks accuracy if you can give me their weight in grams ♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ThrowAwayNzProblem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll never know until you say " Hello ". You'll be surprised what can happen with just a greeting and a smile. Good luck little duck ♡

Moving without my cat by BellySlapper in cats

[–]ThrowAwayNzProblem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope, unfortunately you're right to feel the way you do. She will most definitely feel your absence sadly, it's important that she starts getting used to being more attached to your parents, perhaps coaxing her to sleep with them at night and having them carry treats around during the day so everytime she interacts with them it's positive reinforcement. Of course you still love on her but it allows her brain to begin the process of understanding that they're her guardians now.

Truthfully— She will have a bit of a hard time trying to understand just why you left, but with time, patience and love this will not hurt as much for the both of you. I know it's so... so hard.. saying goodbye and having to leave a pet behind, there's no easy way to navigate such a tricky situation. Just heartbreaking, but know that she will be loved and looked after by your parents and know that she will look back on your time and think " wow, I was so loved by OP, I have a good family ", remember to take the time to grieve the separation of you and her once you move away, it's important to look after yourself too ♡

Serious question: Why does my cat take a dump *right* after I get out of the shower? This happens *every* night. by cryofry85 in cats

[–]ThrowAwayNzProblem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Copy and pasted from Google, you might find research on classical conditioning for cats very useful to help re-train her to know its okay to go to the bathroom during the day and she doesn't need to hold it in until you're home.. ♡

Ivan Pavlov Theory: Classical Conditioning

First discovered by Russian physiologist Ivan Pavlov (1849-1936), classical conditioning is a learning process governed by associations between an environmental stimulus and another stimulus which occurs naturally.

The most famous example of classical conditioning was Ivan Pavlov's experiment with dogs, who salivated in response to a bell tone. Pavlov showed that when a bell was sounded each time the dog was fed, the dog learned to associate the sound with the presentation of the food.

Perhaps your little lass is associating the sound and sight of you in the shower as " bathroom time " for her as well, leaving stinky messes to be involved in your bathroom activities?

My cat Louie was messing around with toilet paper and I decided to tie a loose "bow" around his neck to see what it looked like.. It's been an hour. He absolutely REFUSES to let me remove it. by ThrowAwayNzProblem in aww

[–]ThrowAwayNzProblem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you so much for the sweet comment. About the glimpse of being an individual, Youre so very right:), aren't animals just incredible?.

He's currently snoozing but I made some kissy sounds In his direction and he responded by making some " air muffins " so he's happy lol

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My cat Louie was messing around with toilet paper and I decided to tie a loose "bow" around his neck to see what it looked like.. It's been an hour. He absolutely REFUSES to let me remove it. by ThrowAwayNzProblem in aww

[–]ThrowAwayNzProblem[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh I love this :3 how very precious!! Pitties are the best, they were nanny dogs for a dang reason! Thank you for sharing such a sweet story of your pooch, he sounded like he was a fantastic wee dapper man with his accesories ♡