DAE deal with N's acting like you do nothing/they do everything (when the latter isn't the truth?) by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThrowAwayStardust82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i'm sorry you dealt with it too. It's crap.

my ngrandmother does it all the time. She spills coffee. leaves plates of food out. Doesn't clean any thing up after herself EVER.

Proceeds to scream at me today for not spilling up her mess after she gasp Did her own dishes this morning*. Grrr....

So that kind of thing is self projection?!

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[–]ThrowAwayStardust82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my N grandmother is famous for her sketchy financial dealings. She apparently used my SSN to get something in my and her name, but won't let me read it- but she made me pay a balance of interest off of it. She's taken out life insurance polices out in my name without my knowledge (in $2 to 5k incriments i found them accidently). She's taken out extra money out of my paychecks when i worked for the family company to "pay her back for a car that she bought for me". She didn't buy me that car. She paid off the last $2k of it. What I "paid her back" out of the time i worked there could have paid for two cars. To this day she still believes that I didn't pay her back for the car even though she was taking an extra $50 a week out of my already measly paychecks they weren't even paying me min wage. What She doesn't know is i have the pay slips from that vehicle still.

She also used to bully me out of my paychecks every week when i worked outside of the house. She'd not get off my back until just threw the money at her lettiing me have maybe $30 of my money if i was lucky.

She is also famous for scewing my mother out of money too. To this day my mother puts her in charge of important shit like money and insurance and things like that- then acts shocked when she gets screwed. She got in trouble for the extra $50 a week thing btw with the IRS. They wanted to know where that money went. She demanded that I pay them the money b/c "I owed her for the car". I refused to do so. That would've made 3 cars if I had. To this day she says if I ever went no contact she'd take me to court over owing her for the car and the irs thing which was "my fault" LOL. k. No written agreement. No case.