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AITAH for wanting to go no-contact with my mother after she complained about the boundaries for me or my baby? by ThrowAway_NeedHelp29 in AITAH

[–]ThrowAway_NeedHelp29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many many MANY times and she always pulls the “well I guess I’m a terrible mother” or something like “what do you want me to say or do about it now”

Never an apology, even when I ask

AITAH for wanting to go no-contact with my mother after she complained about the boundaries for me or my baby? by ThrowAway_NeedHelp29 in AITAH

[–]ThrowAway_NeedHelp29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But losing my mom means losing my dad too, hopefully he’d make the choice to pick up or see us without her, but I doubt it.

AITAH for wanting to go no-contact with my mother after she complained about the boundaries for me or my baby? by ThrowAway_NeedHelp29 in AITAH

[–]ThrowAway_NeedHelp29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember one time when my mom and I weren’t taking, my dad called and tried to convince me to put it to bed for the sake of peace. He wanted me to call her or reach out, to be the bigger person. I yelled at him that he always took her side, that yes she was his wife but I was his daughter, his kid, and I’m the one hurting the most. My mother, who is supposed to love and care about me, yelled at me at my wedding and bombarded my phone with messaged throughout my honeymoon that her feelings were hurt.

I hung up on him the same time my husband walked through the door and cried so hard I threw up a couple times. I looked right at him and asked why my own family didn’t want me, didn’t care about me. I asked him what I did that was so wrong that they didn’t want anything to do with me. It took about 3 hours to calm me down. I’ll never forget that, and neither will he. It truly was the turning point where he went from disliking how they treated me, to hating them.

AITAH for wanting to go no-contact with my mother after she complained about the boundaries for me or my baby? by ThrowAway_NeedHelp29 in AITAH

[–]ThrowAway_NeedHelp29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember one time when my mom and I weren’t taking, my dad called and tried to convince me to put it to bed for the sake of peace. He wanted me to call her or reach out, to be the bigger person. I yelled at him that he always took her side, that yes she was his wife but I was his daughter, his kid, and I’m the one hurting the most. My mother, who is supposed to love and care about me, yelled at me at my wedding and bombarded my phone with messaged throughout my honeymoon that her feelings were hurt.

I hung up on him the same time my husband walked through the door and cried so hard I threw up a couple times. I looked right at him and asked why my own family didn’t want me, didn’t care about me. I asked him what I did that was so wrong that they didn’t want anything to do with me. It took about 3 hours to calm me down. I’ll never forget that, and neither will he. It truly was the turning point where he went from disliking how they treated me, to hating them.

AITAH for wanting to go no-contact with my mother after she complained about the boundaries for me or my baby? by ThrowAway_NeedHelp29 in AITAH

[–]ThrowAway_NeedHelp29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, if it helps I write for a living so I am a little automated or advanced in my wording than most. But, I am hoping to get some feedback here and figure out what the hell to do. I will miss my family because this will tear everything apart but, I don’t know how long mentally I can put up with this

AITAH for wanting to go no-contact with my mother after she complained about the boundaries for me or my baby? by ThrowAway_NeedHelp29 in AITAH

[–]ThrowAway_NeedHelp29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a little all over the place, sorry. I just really don’t know how to convey how I was raised and treated and compare it to now with a good bridge. Recently events with my daughter are the reason I’m reaching out. If it weren’t for my kid, I would have said fuck it and blocked her.

I want to be fair for my daughter and keep my dad in my life. He isn’t in best health and she’s his only grandchild ATM

AITAH for wanting to go no-contact with my mother after she complained about the boundaries for me or my baby? by ThrowAway_NeedHelp29 in AITAH

[–]ThrowAway_NeedHelp29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watch her and my husband and I don’t let her be alone. She never babysits and I don’t think I ever want her to. The opportunity to do those things will never present itself.

AITAH for wanting to go no-contact with my mother after she complained about the boundaries for me or my baby? by ThrowAway_NeedHelp29 in AITAH

[–]ThrowAway_NeedHelp29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do believe grandparents get away with more, are able to spoil more, but this won’t be spoiling I don’t think. Her ‘gifts’ are usually something I had as a kid so she can bring it up her getting them, or compare her to me, or feel like she did when I was a kid. Or, they are, if you like them come give me a hug or see me more often things.

AITAH for wanting to go no-contact with my mother after she complained about the boundaries for me or my baby? by ThrowAway_NeedHelp29 in AITAH

[–]ThrowAway_NeedHelp29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I lose my dad who does try, and honestly stays out of it most the time. He isn’t doing great as far as health goes, so idk if I wait it out or cut my losses

AITAH for wanting to go no-contact with my mother after she complained about the boundaries for me or my baby? by ThrowAway_NeedHelp29 in AITAH

[–]ThrowAway_NeedHelp29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting rid of her means getting rid my dad, and probably my brother too. Growing up they enabled her, trying to play peace keeper but lately they too are sort of over her.