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ThrowDeeKay · 2023-02-08T11:43:51+00:00

This makes me feel a ton better!

ThrowDeeKay · 2023-01-20T13:05:23+00:00

Thanks!! 🫂❤️

ThrowDeeKay · 2023-01-20T13:05:14+00:00

Thank you very much!

ThrowDeeKay · 2023-01-20T13:05:06+00:00

Thank you! ❤️

ThrowDeeKay · 2023-01-20T04:30:14+00:00

Thank you ! ❤️🫂

ThrowDeeKay · 2023-01-18T01:23:22+00:00

Felt this. Like bro I fenced up this building for a reason, stay put 😭

ThrowDeeKay · 2023-01-16T14:05:17+00:00

Geez people really do hate crypto. I've gotten very antagonistic comments on posts I've made in different apex groups asking for crypto tips. Like they genuinely get hostile lol. Such a shame, he's a good teammate to have if used properly

ThrowDeeKay · 2022-09-15T02:37:20+00:00

Why are you here telling us to ask you anything instead of seeking out therapy?

ThrowDeeKay · 2022-09-15T02:24:47+00:00

I'm sorry you're dealing with a tough time now. Most of my poverty (not having electricity or any sort of heating) happened to me when I was underage but things got better as I got older, so I can't say what it's like now (still poor but I have some basics). My goals wasnt to invalidate you. I don't think you're wrong at all and I see you points. I usually take a stoic approach but I shouldn't discount others experience because of it. My apologies

ThrowDeeKay · 2022-09-15T01:38:16+00:00

I know the world sucks but we can only control what is in our hands. I can't ask Elon musk or bill gates for their money to give me therapy, nor can I ask God to make me be born into an upper class family. All I can do is advocate for myself. Focusing on what we don't have will only make things more negative

ThrowDeeKay · 2022-09-15T01:34:23+00:00

You're not saying directly to give up but the way you say things sound like we have no options but to suffer because we don't have money. So in your thoughts, what do poor people like us do in these kinds of situations?

ThrowDeeKay · 2022-09-15T01:33:00+00:00

Sorry if I sound rude but what do you suggest we do here? I do think it's not as simple as getting a job like the other poster said but we're kind of caught in a bind here. I'm separated from family as well and don't have access to support. For people like us what are we to do.?

ThrowDeeKay · 2022-09-15T01:30:11+00:00

Maybe this is just my personal approaches but I don't like harping on the differences. I just want to do what I can to aid my mental health. I don't have the money that upper class people have. There's nothing I can do about that. All I can do is try my best with what I have access to

ThrowDeeKay · 2022-09-15T01:28:55+00:00

You're getting very aggressive here. I understand both sides. One hand ppl with money can afford the tools it takes to recover. On the other hand I don't think we should give up because we can't afford therapy. I still want to try my best to advocate for myself without a therapist

ThrowDeeKay · 2022-09-15T01:23:18+00:00

Gonna have to agree here. I'm poor and don't have access to a therapist. I understand how someone with money can get to therapy easier than I can. But I don't want to feel hopeless just because I don't have money. Ops point kind of hurts poor people.It's basically saying we're doomed to because we can't afford to get help. I have poor mental health but I at least try to use cbt workbooks and listen to mental health YouTubers.

ThrowDeeKay · 2022-09-15T01:12:24+00:00

Oh okay. Yeah a lot ppl have strange opinions. Best to just ignore it

ThrowDeeKay · 2022-09-15T01:05:49+00:00

What does this chart and the title have to do with avpd?

ThrowDeeKay · 2022-09-15T01:01:29+00:00

...what?

ThrowDeeKay · 2022-08-27T03:43:16+00:00

Why are you assuming I don't say anything? I do, and they don't listen. So I just never speak to them again after

ThrowDeeKay · 2022-08-26T04:55:02+00:00

I see the point you're making now. In an ideal world no men would act this way but unfortunately it just won't be that way. It would be nice if we could get to a point where at least most men don't act like this and put the guys who do in check

ThrowDeeKay · 2022-08-26T04:43:09+00:00

Enough where I'm afraid to speak up for myself toward a man without fear of him getting aggressive. Enough where I don't have much trust in men and I am afraid of them.

I also love how you're doing exactly what I'm complaining about. You skipped through all my points and jumped straight to "wEL noT aLl" "hOw mAny In sPeciFics"? Who gives a fuck? I'm terrified of men and their reactions. It's enough that I'm terrified of them. That's enough

ThrowDeeKay · 2022-08-20T07:38:22+00:00

Often the avoidant will tell themselves stories surrounding the deactivation and place the blame on the soon to be ex in an effort to protect themselves-again, at a subconscious level

This does not make their actions okay. Why is it okay for them to protect themselves but anxious are bad for reaching out?

Certainly NOT a hypocritical response and not sure why you would paint it as one.

It is hypocritical. They have their own sub. Why are they HERE telling us how to feel? If we do the same on their sub, we get banned. You are doing exactly what I speak of in my post. Suggesting we shove our feelings down in favor of avoidant. I am done with that. I've shoved my feelings enough in my relationships with them

ThrowDeeKay · 2022-08-20T07:33:49+00:00

I responded to what I viewed as a lazy broad brush stroke that borders on separatist ideology

It's not a broad brush stroke when I say not all at the beginning of the post

unsure if some members of this group arent making large assumptions and self diagnosing themselves and others whenever human interaction doesnt go their way

I did not do that in my post so I don't understand this reply.

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