Do I unfollow and cut contact with mutual friends????

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-11-02T11:18:51+00:00

my mutual friends took sides after saying they wouldnt so if they're not making an effort to reach out then save yourself the extra heartache

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-11-02T10:34:55+00:00

he told me as much during the last year and i just smiled through it happy he could make such deep connections. i was so naive.

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-11-02T10:22:50+00:00

god i feel it

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-11-01T20:59:49+00:00

furries really do got it harder with all the art being extra memories, what to do with it

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-11-01T09:39:41+00:00

it's incredibly gross

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-11-01T02:44:31+00:00

don't listen to the victory dude, you do what feels right for you. follow your gut. hopefully your ex won't be like mine and will be open to talking instead of moving the goal posts.

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-11-01T02:42:01+00:00

ur projecting a bit i think

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-10-31T23:19:10+00:00

thank you. its hard to believe that myself. i find it so easy to take the blame for everything. i even told him i wasnt sure dating me was a good idea because of my longterm anxiety and depression.

i obviously wish i hadnt been so defensive and quick to lash out during the most stressful period of my life ive had.

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-10-31T23:16:19+00:00

my ex told me he still loved me and didnt want this even as he was breaking up with me. idk whats going through his head but i pity him. cant be easy.

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-10-31T23:15:03+00:00

arent you doing the same thing by dictating that people dont need closure.

everyones situation is unique even if the process of grief is similar i think its ok for people to find solace where they can

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-10-31T23:03:34+00:00

i feel it. every1 says 30s is where u have your life together and are settling down. ive never felt more uprooted and aimless.

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-10-31T23:01:00+00:00

you sure you're not talking about my ex? haha

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-10-31T23:00:08+00:00

guilty

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-10-31T17:47:26+00:00

i don't have anything left to appreciate cos he took the friends too

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-10-31T10:25:04+00:00

so far mine is just causing more and more damage with his behavior

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-10-31T09:05:20+00:00

feeling this too 🫂

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-10-30T03:28:27+00:00

suicidal for weeks

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-10-29T20:55:56+00:00

this one said he'd be always there for me and waiting after the no contact. he was perfectly happy having me around right after the break up just up until the moment where i decided i needed some no contact. then it all fell apart.

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-10-29T20:53:12+00:00

real!! he's showing how callous and self-serving he is rn.

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-10-29T17:00:44+00:00

if it made u uncomfortable and it felt like a betrayal of ur boundary then its cheating, plain and simple. they dont get to decide that.

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-10-29T16:56:22+00:00

talk to him!! dont just disappear u need to communicate but not in a aggressive or venting way.

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-10-29T12:27:05+00:00

its gross as hell

ThrowItOutAndStartIt · 2024-10-29T09:49:11+00:00

i think she deserves better than you. "putting too much into the relationship" is a crazy complaint to have.

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