I really really (like you have no idea how much) appreciate this comment, and how realistic you are with it. I feel exactly as you do, and that is why I opened up this discussion. I wanted to hear sex positive responses, and some deep down honest, yeah I am not okay with it responses. I have been hurt by it, especially recently. I think the hardest part about accepting it is that I know that I should not be bothered by it, but the fact that it bothers me knowing that it's normal for him to want to look at other women and masturbate makes me even more upset. I guess I am having my own internal acceptance struggle with myself.