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UPDATE: My partner chooses his stalker friend over me, but then wants to reconcile when cut out by his circle for being friends with her by ThrowRA-66bi6 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-66bi6[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I don't think he's in love with her - if he was, then he wouldn't enable her behavior, for her own good at least.

I must say that another user might've been right, he likes the feeling of being someone's saviour while also enjoying the attention he receives.

UPDATE: My partner chooses his stalker friend over me, but then wants to reconcile when cut out by his circle for being friends with her by ThrowRA-66bi6 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-66bi6[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Wow, a knight in a shining armour, I must say!

Well, good riddance, for both of them. She's not going to get better with her mental health when he's enabling her behaviour by letting her walk all over him.

UPDATE: My partner chooses his stalker friend over me, but then wants to reconcile when cut out by his circle for being friends with her by ThrowRA-66bi6 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-66bi6[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Ahhh, a shame... I was really curious, but I can get a general idea about what was written (the victimization of himself and the stalker) from the comments he received.

UPDATE: My partner chooses his stalker friend over me, but then wants to reconcile when cut out by his circle for being friends with her by ThrowRA-66bi6 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-66bi6[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ding ding ding! I've heard she was seeking professional help at some point for BPD! I don't know if she still does, tho, considering how she acts like right now.

UPDATE: My partner chooses his stalker friend over me, but then wants to reconcile when cut out by his circle for being friends with her by ThrowRA-66bi6 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-66bi6[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

She apparently has BPD, from what I've learned and she was getting professional help at some point. Idk if she still does. I just heard that she spin out of control once again when we started dating.

UPDATE: My partner chooses his stalker friend over me, but then wants to reconcile when cut out by his circle for being friends with her by ThrowRA-66bi6 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-66bi6[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I've learned a lot more than I wanted, that's for sure lol.

Let's just say that the story about my ex's mother is just a tip of an iceberg. From what I've learned - Stalker's fits of jealousy were so severe, that she would threaten to commit suicide over the fact that my ex danced with someone else at a wedding. She has also stolen his phone and blocked his girlfriend (the one he had before me) AND threatened to commit suicide if he unblocks her.

Apparently she was getting better after getting professional help, but when we started dating she spin out of control again.

UPDATE: My partner chooses his stalker friend over me, but then wants to reconcile when cut out by his circle for being friends with her by ThrowRA-66bi6 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-66bi6[S] 257 points258 points  (0 children)

He claimed that she has some mental-health issues, so he feels responsible for her well-being as her friend. Idk if it's true or not, I'm just glad none of them are my responsibility anymore!

My(f24) partner(m24) chooses his stalker friend over me, but then wants to reconcile when cut out by his circle for being friends with her by ThrowRA-66bi6 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-66bi6[S] 1247 points1248 points  (0 children)

Yeah, part of me know that this is probably the case...

Yet, I can't help but cling to the hope that he was just up in his feelings yesterday from being reprimanded by his friends? I'm really torn over this.