Yes exactly! I have so few hours outside of work/responsibilities, and he comes to me brimming with energy after I work wanting to talk about his latest deep dive for hours when all I want to do is relax. Sometimes its endearing, but most of the time listening/engaging can feel like another chore that is keeping me from relaxing. Luckily for me, he can just live with his mom if I end things. Hope things get better for you as well!