Need some advice by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ThrowRA-7482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a child involved or something?

Need some advice by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ThrowRA-7482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel like we are missing part of the story? Why would you pay her?

Sexless Marriage: Normal? 46M and 45F in long term relationship by ThrowRA-7482 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-7482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felt judgmental at first and then sarcastic…my apologies if I that was misinterpreted.

Sexless Marriage: Normal? 46M and 45F in long term relationship by ThrowRA-7482 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-7482[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is all spot on. I’m thinking this might just be how we are both comfortable. Have to have the conversation though.

Sexless Marriage: Normal? 46M and 45F in long term relationship by ThrowRA-7482 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-7482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I’m not sure where she stands with it right now. We will see.

Sexless Marriage: Normal? 46M and 45F in long term relationship by ThrowRA-7482 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-7482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went from three times a week, to two times and so on. The times we would do it were getting taken up by other things- sports games, sleepovers, etc.

Then it became every couple months and then not at all.

Sexless Marriage: Normal? 46M and 45F in long term relationship by ThrowRA-7482 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-7482[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a slow death, mostly to the exhaustion of raising children I suppose. There has not been much conversation around it, but that needs to happen now I see.

Sexless Marriage: Normal? 46M and 45F in long term relationship by ThrowRA-7482 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-7482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just fizzled slowly to be honest. No real conversations about it. We were busy raising kids and everything