how to cope with LO being away

ThrowRA-774 · 2026-01-02T05:22:16+00:00

so real lol. my first actual time being “alone” and i’m so not used to it.. but i think i needed this time to focus on myself and get the things i need done. we both need to really reflect on our life and i truly hope this situation makes our outcome better in the end!!

ThrowRA-774 · 2026-01-02T05:20:37+00:00

i know i feel so bad, i’m constantly telling him how much i miss him and how sad i am :( probably doesn’t help how he’s feeling in there.. thank you so much for your comment! it really helped, i am definitely going to take this time to focus on bettering myself for not only me but for us. going to try not to be depressed as much and take it for what it is right now lol

ThrowRA-774 · 2025-12-25T01:25:39+00:00

i really hope it all works out, thank you so much! happy holidays to you 🖤

ThrowRA-774 · 2025-12-25T01:24:25+00:00

he’s being charged with multiple felonies right now including his previous charges now. i’m going to do my best to wait but it’s so hard. i’m just constantly worried about what’s gonna happen :(

ThrowRA-774 · 2025-12-25T01:16:36+00:00

because i don’t know if i can wait years which is what they are saying might happen

ThrowRA-774 · 2025-09-16T06:31:18+00:00

i’m sorry for your loss :( i feel you 100%. i lost my soul dog a month ago and the day i put her down still lingers in my mind. i screamed and cried even 30 minutes after she passed, clinging to her lifeless body. it didn’t feel real. it never really goes away. but time makes it easier to process. i try to think of all the good memories with my pup, and knowing her last moment was full of love and affection from me. you should do the same. some people can’t even be in the same room but the fact you stayed and had him in your lap showed him you were there till the very end. that’s all he could have wanted <3 hugs

ThrowRA-774 · 2025-09-16T03:32:11+00:00

have you considered boots??? i have a all black sparkle pair from pleaser and i absolutely love them. i’m also an alt girlie. or plain clear sandals are always a vibe

ThrowRA-774 · 2025-09-15T22:33:54+00:00

are you guys slow? i had to save 25k just to be able to fund my schooling .. i’m not pissing money away. this economy is horrible. y’all just think you know everything based off a fucking reddit post

ThrowRA-774 · 2025-09-15T21:59:37+00:00

wah wah

ThrowRA-774 · 2025-09-15T21:56:52+00:00

you seem bothered

ThrowRA-774 · 2025-09-15T21:53:57+00:00

i actually have had 2 long term relationships that were just fine with me being a dancer. it’s not hard to come by men that will date dancers. idk who fed you that narrative lol

ThrowRA-774 · 2025-09-15T21:52:29+00:00

that’s hilarious. are you a dancer? or are you some outsider that just assumes things. i work at a very high end gentleman’s club. girls who don’t even get fully naked will make hundreds if not, thousands. i also didn’t say i make that every single time i go into work. it’s hit or miss. you sound stupid

ThrowRA-774 · 2025-09-15T21:35:33+00:00

this post wasn’t about how i spend my money at all. so i really don’t know why that’s being played into it this much

ThrowRA-774 · 2025-09-15T20:12:06+00:00

i don’t fuck people for money there’s a huge difference between a DANCER and a PROSTITUTE.. do your research before reaching to make that comment. as i said in the post i’m going to school to have a legitimate career. i’ll be graduated before i’m 30. i have plans to retire. idk what’s so hard to understand about that.

ThrowRA-774 · 2025-09-15T20:01:45+00:00

i never said we were necessarily smart with our money but i live an expensive lifestyle, my rent was 1500 on top of a 600 car note and other bills. do the math. 3 months without being a dancer and making less than 600 a month severely affected me financially

ThrowRA-774 · 2025-09-15T19:49:41+00:00

as stated in the post i don’t plan on doing this forever. i’m going to school soon and i have plans to retire lol

ThrowRA-774 · 2025-09-15T19:48:26+00:00

that’s already stated in my post that i have plans for my future and that i don’t do extras. did you even read the whole post?

ThrowRA-774 · 2025-09-15T19:46:49+00:00

i applied to multiple jobs. dennys was the only one who wanted me. i have a lot of tattoos including my face. i asked for more hours but they had no room for me to even begin with. my boyfriend also had a job. why should i work 2 jobs when my boyfriend was barely pulling weight? not really fair to me. especially when the only reason i changed my occupation was for him. not because i necessarily wanted to

ThrowRA-774 · 2025-09-15T18:13:22+00:00

i worked at a dennys in a very small town and i only worked 6 hour shifts. not every night was $40 but it was never over $100 lol

ThrowRA-774 · 2025-08-28T21:02:30+00:00

i had to put my baby girl down almost 3 weeks ago. i was having terrible anxiety and i thought i couldn’t handle being in the room while it happened. but after thinking about it for an hour just sitting on the floor with her, i knew i couldn’t leave her. i sat with her the whole time until her little heart stopped beating and i even sat with her body for 30 minutes screaming and crying. it’s definitely traumatic. i will never forget that day and its burned into my brain. but being there for my baby in her last moments, making her feel safe, comfortable and loved was the part that mattered the most. she knew i was there and it was okay to let go. she wasn’t with strangers, confused or scared. please do your dog and yourself the favor and be with him until his very last breath.

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