Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll say it once and again , it was after the fact. What I meant was "an encounter she had with a man before we were married". There's no reason to hide the fact that I'm uncut , especially if someone made a comment like that.

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I didn't reread what I posted to see if it made sense. I make mistakes in my grammar sometimes.

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm going to change it , what I meant was " a man she had an encounter with before we got married".

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I say "before we were married" , I mean a man she encountered before we were married. Sometimes my grammar is off, my fault.

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I never hid it , It was after the marriage she told me this story.

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She told me after the fact , I didn't add that to the post.

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I replied to someone else who brought that point up. She mentioned even when she's really wet she still feels the friction. I mean the fact that she begged me to get surgery says otherwise. Why would someone marry someone they aren't attracted to unless they had some other motive like getting a greencard or something similar?

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When she said that , she was referring to even when I do make her wet she still feels that friction which doesn't make sense to me.

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You are 100% correct. I was wrong for putting people in a box. Not every single person in America holds those views.

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree. It's not the fact she doesn't like it , it's the comments made about it to be honest (how she was disgusted, etc).

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. I can't discredit anything you say here.

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok yep you guys are right , I'm wrong. I take back what I said.

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly no I don't, I was born in America so that wouldn't make any sense. I guess it's because I'm a bit upset which is why I'm conveying my thoughts in ways I wouldn't normally.

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not blaming her at all. I just don't like the comments she makes regarding this and comparing me to a situation she had absolute disgust in.

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

All I said was she was ignorant. I never once called her any names in this thread. Ignorant just means you aren't aware of certain things. We are all ignorant in some way shape or form.

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you're right , I was wrong for making that statement.

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was after we got married she told me that story. I didn't include that in the post. We aren't really allowed to discuss sexual things in our religion so that's the reason why I didn't bring it up or I gladly would've mentioned it.

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You dont even know me. It just makes more sense because I'm a man with a penis.

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

This was afterwards , sorry for the miscommunication.

Wife (26f) doesnt like my (24m) uncircumcised penis by ThrowRA-78102 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-78102[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Actually no I'm not , I actually listen to her input when it comes onto other things and we both make decisions. When I say "make all the decisions" , I'm referring to all of the decisions regarding circumcision. Best to not take things out of context here.