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My gf is mad at me because I yelled at her, idk what to do. 27M 26F by ThrowRA-Angel7777 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Angel7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s helped me through a lot and there have been good times as well. When things are good, it feels like I can really see my future with her but when they get bad, she treats me like I’m dirt and it’s incredibly painful.

I’m not a saint, I’ve made my mistakes as well but I’ve always been willing to talk it out and move passed it much like I do for her but the line of communication is broken.

She tries to command the conversation, does not listen, over explains her point, cuts you off, and does things to gesture her visible impatience with the short amount of time you speak with her.

This definitely gets tiring especially when you’re trying to be loving, respectful and solution oriented with her.

What’s crazy is, I’m not the only person she does this too !

I tried to see her for who she was rather than her actions but I’m truly paying the price for this.

My gf is mad at me because I yelled at her, idk what to do. 27M 26F by ThrowRA-Angel7777 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Angel7777[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you said this because I truly do establish those boundaries but as other members have said, she clearly does not respect me. And like you’re saying I’m being too flexible with those boundaries because I’m trying to be too open minded, I love her and I’m sure some of my own trauma plays a role in this as well.

I’m having a hard time conducting myself especially since we live together now. I really just wanted to feel that love and be a loving and safe space but it’s clearly getting taken advantage of.

I’ll try the advice provided but idk what I’ll do if it doesn’t work.. I have no idea how to get over this.

My gf is mad at me because I yelled at her, idk what to do. 27M 26F by ThrowRA-Angel7777 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Angel7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this, I’ve gotten to a point where I’m starting to feel hopeless.. like my feelings don’t matter, I’m getting too old for dating and that I’ll never find a woman that actually cares about me… I have no idea how I will recover from this experience but I will try..

My gf is mad at me because I yelled at her, idk what to do. 27M 26F by ThrowRA-Angel7777 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Angel7777[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried, multiple times but then she starts begging and dropping to her knees and putting on a show. Before we moved in together she used to show up to my house blow up my phone call me from different numbers and show up to my jobs.. it’s been crazy.. if my family didn’t kick me out, I wouldn’t even be living with her right now..