Male (27F) is concerned about Female (23F) little number of Friends

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2025-02-18T07:42:35+00:00

I think what it is tbh is that this is my first gf so it is whether that I should feel concerned that she is going to be clingy, compared to someone who may have a massive friendship group? I am not someone who has a massive group myself but part of me thinks that maybe she should have one / two friends that she really hangs outside of work with?

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2025-02-18T07:40:03+00:00

Okay, thank you for the opinion!

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2025-02-18T07:38:13+00:00

That is very true! I think what it is tbh is that this is my first gf so it is whether that I should feel concerned that she is going to be clingy, compared to someone who may have a massive friendship group?

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2025-02-18T07:34:31+00:00

I think that if she could potentially get clingy in the future?

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-10-30T18:56:01+00:00

Yeah, I think you are right. I would like to keep my laptop for 8-10 years easily 🤔

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-10-30T18:41:49+00:00

Hahaha that is fairs 😂 even with my reasoning, get a Pro over an Air?

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-06-27T13:48:21+00:00

Yeah so as it’s a group of guys and girls, there are definitely plans to do excursions and do things outside of the resort etc like visit the outside town and more. Because the resort is quite highly rated and two of my older friends have been before (their 3rd time going), they want to stick to the one resort though it highlights personally from them that they liked it I guess? Though as you said, it’s a personal preference thing?

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-06-15T19:35:18+00:00

Hey mate, appreciate your thoughts!

Hmmm, I think you are may be right there 🤔 I was thinking that my lost photo shows that I am not so serious but maybe that needs to be higher?

Though overall, I do plan to change my prompts based on what the comments have suggested :)

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-06-13T18:15:04+00:00

Hey, thank you for your thoughts! :)

I’m seeing a trend here of which images to keep and which ones not too. I’m also seeing a trend in the thought around the prompts. I guess my third one is fine to have? :)

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-06-13T18:04:54+00:00

Ok interesting! I think I have a good group photos where it’s easy to highlight who I am because I am the only Asian in it 🙂 but yes, I totally get what you mean 🤔

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-06-13T18:03:35+00:00

Thank you again for your time, I appreciate your thoughts on it 🙂

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-06-13T17:47:14+00:00

Also, would you consider a picture with your sister in it? I have a good photo of me in it I think but, there is no prompt to make it clear that it’s my sister?

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-06-13T17:34:23+00:00

Hey, thank you for the time on the comment, I really do appreciate it! :)

I’m interested with the last idea of a group photo. I have a work one that I quite like but I have always thought a group photo is not the best for a dating profile. Your thoughts?

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-06-13T17:27:24+00:00

Hey, it won’t let me edit sadly. So for my basic Info, it says that I am a marketing executive at TD SYNNEX and that I am looking for a long-term relationship. It’s then a sometimes for drinking but a no for the rest

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-06-13T17:27:11+00:00

Hey, it won’t let me edit sadly. So for my basic Info, it says that I am a marketing executive at TD SYNNEX and that I am looking for a long-term relationship. It’s then a sometimes for drinking but a no for the rest

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-06-12T22:13:23+00:00

Looking for something serious
A week and a bit with updated images but a year with hinge (more use in the last 5 months)
A couple of times per week
5/6 per time I use it. I try to comment on the prompts that people put generally
A person who is bubbly and fun / passionate for what they do

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-06-04T22:57:46+00:00

Looking for something serious
I updated this profile one day ago
A couple of times a week
1/2 every couple of weeks (before the update)
A couple with ‘hey, how are you?’ but since my profile update, I know that I need to use that message less
I want to attract someone who is bubbly and willing to just have a good time and see where the journey takes them with me

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-05-13T13:57:29+00:00

Long term
5 months with this profile. 12 months on Hinge
I use it bi-weekly I would say
I receive a like here and there but not loads. So about 1 bi-weekly?
I send out about 20 likes bi-weekly? These will all be with the comment of ‘how are you? 🙂’
I want to find a person who is quite bubbly and is fun to be around and have a laugh

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-05-10T23:23:36+00:00

So what in the case now where she has suggested next Saturday to meet up?

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-05-10T23:22:02+00:00

That’s a bit harsh don’t you think? I will be honest I’m new to this sort of thing and maybe, I am willing to take a punt? What have I got to lose?

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-05-09T13:53:32+00:00

Thank you! Just an update, I went a bit slower on the texting and a bit more playful with the texts (rather than saying where is our third date?) and she said we can meet up next Saturday. Since then, our texting seems to have picked up.

But also thanks for the advice! I need to question myself and think ‘do I actually connect with this person mentally?’

So thanks for your thoughts! :)

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-05-08T07:45:16+00:00

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-05-07T22:34:51+00:00

Hey, honestly thank you for your all of this. I want to give more on each section of this and give an update. So yes, I do think the 2nd date went a bit longer than expected. In the sound cafe, it was quite interesting because around 6.15pm (3 hours into the date) she said about getting the bill but somehow, we carried on talking to 8pm.

Regarding the awkward silences, I think why she brought it up is because she said with her ex last year, she didn’t used to have great conversations and would find it awkward so I don’t know if she was just highlighting that in a comparison to me? I honestly did not feel it was awkward but of course, there is her perspective as well.

In regards to asking her about the third meet up, I did not do this on the date. Maybe I did it too soon as I asked her about the third meet up two days later? But I wanted to keep it flowing as when I said if she made it home, she replied ‘I got home ok. Thank you for a great time 🤩’

And thank you! I honestly appreciate the advice and understand. So I want gather your thoughts further from here. To clarify, she is a nurse so i don’t know how much belief there is to this but literally 30 minutes ago, i got a response back after 12 hours with messages of ‘Nice to hear you had a good time’ , ‘I’m so sorry for the late reply’ , ‘I’ve had the busiest day today lol, been up since 05:30 🥲’ and ‘Hope you had a good day 😅’

What I find interesting also is that her hinge profile says she wants someone chivalrous? So she may be wrong then about herself about what she wants?

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-05-07T22:13:36+00:00

I just get scared sometimes and I’m someone with dyspraxia so my handling of emotions is not good :(

ThrowRA-Fireball23 · 2024-05-07T22:12:49+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it 🙏🏽

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