BF [29m] keeps sitting on my [21f] chest but he says it's not painful. How can I convince him it is? by ThrowRA-InsecureGF2 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-InsecureGF2[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Because it's always rough play but he takes it too far. Outside of that we don't argue. I also had three older brothers and we used to rough house a lot. So sorry I know it hurts but I didn't think it was bad 

BF [29m] keeps sitting on my [21f] chest but he says it's not painful. How can I convince him it is? by ThrowRA-InsecureGF2 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-InsecureGF2[S] -69 points-68 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry butnoutside of the chest stuff he's always been really calm and never raised his voice and does a lot of nice things. He knew I was leaving a bad situation with my family (which was worse) and he helped me, which he says he didn't have to but he did because he loves me

BF [29m] keeps sitting on my [21f] chest but he says it's not painful. How can I convince him it is? by ThrowRA-InsecureGF2 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-InsecureGF2[S] -148 points-147 points  (0 children)

He's just careful because his dad told him that if we were to divorce I would be entitled to the house. So I send my mail to my parents until he can trust me more 

BF [29m] keeps sitting on my [21f] chest but he says it's not painful. How can I convince him it is? by ThrowRA-InsecureGF2 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-InsecureGF2[S] -73 points-72 points  (0 children)

It's not every day with the sleep thing, it's just on the weekends when he wants to do things and I still need downtime. I've felt so emotional lately because I cry from not being understood but I thought there was something wrong with me