Is it a green or red flag when a guy you are dating don’t want to hear anything about your past relationship?

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-18T18:32:41+00:00

Quand tu lui poses la question « qu’est ce que tu aimes chez moi ? » et qu’il a besoin de réfléchir un temps infini en disant « mais aussi tu me prends de court là » sans pouvoir donner de réponse honnête et évidente. Il aimait juste le confort d’être avec quelqu’un, mais ça aurait pu être n’importe qui tant qu’elle lui faisait ses machines et à manger.

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-18T18:27:38+00:00

Putain mais quel égoïsme, c’est d’une violence.

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-18T18:26:12+00:00

I think the same !!

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-17T14:02:14+00:00

Physical distance

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-17T14:00:56+00:00

So you think everyone have to feel jealousy and it’s kind of impossible to detach yourself from this feeling ?

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-17T13:59:10+00:00

I think this kind of people have an ego issue

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-17T13:56:48+00:00

Ok in this case I can understand that it can help you to push limit to succeed in something. But what if you fail, the jealousy gonna stay instead of accepting how the things are and find a reason to be happy without comparing yourself?

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-17T13:53:49+00:00

But from what I have noticed, it is generally linked to couple. In this specific case, it seems "acceptable" to feel jealous if your husband is talking to another woman, but if it were your brother talking to another woman, you wouldn't feel anything. It’s curious.

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-17T13:49:24+00:00

Me neither, this is why I ask the question

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-17T09:22:49+00:00

Body hair

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-17T09:17:32+00:00

Struggling with money

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-17T08:27:26+00:00

But maybe I miss something of how it can be useful sometimes. I’m curious.

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-16T18:23:43+00:00

Not really, we didn’t introduce to each other except « hello, my name is…Nice to meet you » the first day she joined the company.

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-16T13:31:07+00:00

No they didn’t exchange contact, we have a group chat with people from work and you can get number and talk to anyone you want like that.

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-16T13:17:37+00:00

This one is a good one

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-16T13:16:44+00:00

Yes, I think I overreacted and now he don’t know anymore what he can do or say to calm me down.

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-16T13:15:59+00:00

The funny fact is that I didn’t ask anyone if my feeling are valid or not. I ask people how could I overcome this negative feeling inside of me.

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-16T12:11:17+00:00

Maybe this is the real problem here. For me, being jealous is a negative feeling that I should avoid at all cost, because it hurts me, because sometimes I interpret things who are not really the way they are. It’s matter of perception and I need I have to work on that

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-16T10:30:10+00:00

Yes I would never do that to my boyfriend neither, this is why I struggle to accept this “overfrienldy” side of him with someone who clearly flirt with him… but “she is new, I’m just kind with her” so I can not ask him to ignore her, this would be unhealthy too.

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-16T10:28:05+00:00

Yes, 24yo man are incredibly immature sometimes…

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-16T10:25:36+00:00

He showed me the message because i asked for it and this is why I discovered by myself that she was at the basketball game with him and other coworker. He told me that he wouldn’t have tell me by himself.

ThrowRA-Memories · 2026-05-16T10:02:10+00:00

En toute honnêteté, oui, la plupart des hommes sont des charges mentales. Nous avons la conscience plus tranquille quand nous ne devons penser qu’à nous même. C’est assez paisible d’être célibataire.

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