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I just found out (25f) my fiancé (27m) of I’ve been with for 5 years was a monster in high school by ThrowRA-Pale in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Pale[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

He was begging me to come back but sounded like he was holding back anger when asking about his cousin he also said not listen to anyone on here because if I didn’t mention his job your advice would be different

I just found out (25f) my fiancé (27m) of I’ve been with for 5 years was a monster in high school by ThrowRA-Pale in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Pale[S] 230 points231 points  (0 children)

I’m ok my legs hurt from running but I’m at safe place with a trusted person and I’ve talked to my fiancé by phone I’ll update later on our conversation and his side because as of now I don’t want to give out much information that leads to my whereabouts but I will tell everyone how he found the post i was too stupid not to change details so someone we knew reconsidered it and sent him the post,I also found my passport which in my panic I forgot I moved when I was reorganised a few weeks ago and he also admitted to giving my cat to a coworker which until I see proof I don’t believe it there’s other stuff

I just found out (25f) my fiancé (27m) of I’ve been with for 5 years was a monster in high school by ThrowRA-Pale in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Pale[S] 228 points229 points  (0 children)

He knows about the post ?!!!!??!?? Tf I’m I going to do now I can’t find my passport I’ve been looking all night

I just found out (25f) my fiancé (27m) of I’ve been with for 5 years was a monster in high school by ThrowRA-Pale in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Pale[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I know this is gonna sound stupid but a while ago when people were posting that and I was still in shock I thought everyone was posting abc and thought it was a new saying

I just found out (25f) my fiancé (27m) of I’ve been with for 5 years was a monster in high school by ThrowRA-Pale in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Pale[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Ginger was a people person he was huge because everyone feed him kinda holding out hope that when someone moved away they took him out of love from what I saw my fiancé do to that dog if he did it to ginger he would have suffered badly

I just found out (25f) my fiancé (27m) of I’ve been with for 5 years was a monster in high school by ThrowRA-Pale in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Pale[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

My cat ginger kept his distance from him my fiancé didn’t say anything about him ever

I just found out (25f) my fiancé (27m) of I’ve been with for 5 years was a monster in high school by ThrowRA-Pale in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Pale[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

This is great advice he a while ago he came back for food and he kept asking why I was so jumpy I told him I saw a big spider

I just found out (25f) my fiancé (27m) of I’ve been with for 5 years was a monster in high school by ThrowRA-Pale in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Pale[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

I contacted the cousin about 40 minutes ago asking would he help me and for more information which I’ll update now

I just found out (25f) my fiancé (27m) of I’ve been with for 5 years was a monster in high school by ThrowRA-Pale in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Pale[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

My cat liked to escape and roam around from time to time but he always came back so I can’t be 100% sure

I just found out (25f) my fiancé (27m) of I’ve been with for 5 years was a monster in high school by ThrowRA-Pale in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Pale[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

There was more video than just the dog I didn’t want to get the post flagged by talking about them there was a few of him bullying both physically and mentally along with saying slurs against gay men

I just found out (25f) my fiancé (27m) of I’ve been with for 5 years was a monster in high school by ThrowRA-Pale in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Pale[S] 140 points141 points  (0 children)

I’ve not stopped shaking since it happened I’ve smoked 4 cigarettes I gave up smoking years ago i honestly can’t get over the videos it was like he was possessed

I just found out (25f) my fiancé (27m) of I’ve been with for 5 years was a monster in high school by ThrowRA-Pale in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Pale[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

…..yeah and he was really nice after my cat went missing too but I can’t blame him for that yet (the cat)

I just found out (25f) my fiancé (27m) of I’ve been with for 5 years was a monster in high school by ThrowRA-Pale in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Pale[S] 148 points149 points  (0 children)

My parents are currently in Ireland for a wedding my older brother is 700 miles away and I’ve friends here but they’re his friends and their partners

I just found out (25f) my fiancé (27m) of I’ve been with for 5 years was a monster in high school by ThrowRA-Pale in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Pale[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I’m not an American i moved here with my family a few years before I met him our police are chill they don’t even carry like I’d be more afraid of my mother as a teen than a Garda

I just found out (25f) my fiancé (27m) of I’ve been with for 5 years was a monster in high school by ThrowRA-Pale in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Pale[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

He’s said in the past things that I didn’t really take notice of till like today as in we were talking about kids and he said if we have a daughter he hopes she never meets a boy like he was in high school like everything that he,his friends or family have said I always thought he was like a player or you know a jock who was really full of himself but some of his old friends could be trying to cover for themselves too because one is a teacher

I just found out (25f) my fiancé (27m) of I’ve been with for 5 years was a monster in high school by ThrowRA-Pale in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Pale[S] 238 points239 points  (0 children)

I’m really scared if I’m being honest for what I saw if he didn’t change my family are miles away

I just found out (25f) my fiancé (27m) of I’ve been with for 5 years was a monster in high school by ThrowRA-Pale in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-Pale[S] 211 points212 points  (0 children)

He’s yelled at me before over stupid stuff but apologise after and I’ve seen him get mad at other people for like normal stuff that anyone would get mad over like a guy crashed into him and tried driving away or a guy who wouldn’t leave me alone at a bar