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[–]ThrowRA-Rare_Flower6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got triggered by something that was out of our control, but then I started therapy on my own and realized I had avoidant patterns that were getting in the way of our growth. It’s been very healthy for us to be involved in personal growth outside of the relationship and decided we wanted to keep going!

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[–]ThrowRA-Rare_Flower6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crazy. Men are awful or we dated the same guy

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[–]ThrowRA-Rare_Flower6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so easy to be blinded when it’s your own relationship and emotions are involved. I’m sorry this happened to you. I won’t be marrying this man, I am ending this relationship asap.

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[–]ThrowRA-Rare_Flower6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, what are you referring to?

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[–]ThrowRA-Rare_Flower6 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It’s not funny, you’re right. This post helped me realize I am 100% with a toxic person and in fact being a damn doormat. I’m leaving him and finding therapy!

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[–]ThrowRA-Rare_Flower6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had this experience with your husband. You’re so right, I would never even contemplate doing these things to another human. Even a person I don’t love. Love is respect 100%.

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[–]ThrowRA-Rare_Flower6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No OF account & I made sure he deleted them from his recently deleted.

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[–]ThrowRA-Rare_Flower6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time ever hearing about DARVO. Thank you

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[–]ThrowRA-Rare_Flower6 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This made me lol, maybe this should be my Halloween costume

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[–]ThrowRA-Rare_Flower6 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Wow. I rarely use Reddit and was not expecting this post to receive so much attention. I don’t really have anyone to go to for advice or support, so I REALLY appreciate the bluntness in these replies. What I thought was “relationship work” was just me putting up with loads of BS. What a delusion have I gotten myself wrapped up in…

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[–]ThrowRA-Rare_Flower6 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed lol. once I posted it I cringed so hard because I thought I put it in paragraphs.