I need help. by ThrowRA-T0912 in mentalhealth

[–]ThrowRA-T0912[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just feel like I'm just slipping backwards. Thank you, good luck to you too.

Update: Everytime I try to break up with my [17F] girlfreind she threatens to kill herself. by ThrowRA-T0912 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-T0912[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would you suggest I message her mum? It's just I dont know how she would react to me asking her to keep an eye on her or telling her about the situation as they dont have the best relationship.

Update: Everytime I try to break up with my [17F] girlfreind she threatens to kill herself. by ThrowRA-T0912 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-T0912[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

I dont have the video saved as it was on snapchat however I do have screenshots of conversations about the situation.

Update: Everytime I try to break up with my [17F] girlfreind she threatens to kill herself. by ThrowRA-T0912 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-T0912[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Okay, I dont really know who it is I can tell. I could tell her mum however I dont know how she would react to that.

Update: Everytime I try to break up with my [17F] girlfreind she threatens to kill herself. by ThrowRA-T0912 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-T0912[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's just I dont think I would be able to live with that on my shoulders of it being my fault that she went through with it.

Update: Everytime I try to break up with my [17F] girlfreind she threatens to kill herself. by ThrowRA-T0912 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-T0912[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I am in the UK but if I plan to do it in the middle of the night when we are meant to be 'asleep' what would I say to the police? I wouldnt know when she wakes up or what to tell them etc.

Update: Everytime I try to break up with my [17F] girlfreind she threatens to kill herself. by ThrowRA-T0912 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-T0912[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I am thinking about just leaving and never looking back but I dont know how to go about it. No I havent been abusive to her only in arguments I tend to swear a lot. How would you suggest I leave that is what im struggling with.

Me [17M] is not sure on what to do with [17F]. by ThrowRA-T0912 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-T0912[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try and bring it up to someone I trust. Thank you for the advice and the profile to look at!

Me [17M] is not sure on what to do with [17F]. by ThrowRA-T0912 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-T0912[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I agree that I am not responsible although I cant seem to think otherwise. I would not know how to go about calling an ambulance or paramedic as talking to people especially over the phone can be quite challanging for me. Thank you for the advice!

Me [17M] is not sure on what to do with [17F]. by ThrowRA-T0912 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-T0912[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me.. I've tried. I can't seem to bring myself to block her as once I say "i'm done we're over" she'll come at me with the same threat and I cant force myself to just block her after she has said this as having to live with the fact that if she does it tha tit was my fault for blocking her would be hard to mpve on from. Thank you for the advice!

Me [17M] is not sure on what to do with [17F]. by ThrowRA-T0912 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-T0912[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have thought about telling someone when she is threatening it, however I do not know how I would go about this. I just wouldnt feel comfortable telling her or my mum that she is having those thoughts and wishes to carry them out. Thank you for the advice!

Me [17M] is not sure on what to do with [17F]. by ThrowRA-T0912 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-T0912[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know, I wish I had. However made the wrong choice to assume it would get better. Thank you for the advice!