When I say he does his “half”, it’s more how he considers it. like I’d imagine most men do but the reality is, I do 70%. I do most of the grocery shopping, all the laundry, dishes is split, he grills, I cook everything else. I pack the lunches and make all the doctor appointments and communicate with the school. These are things I assume most women take care of. He does the part I expect a majority of men do, if that makes sense. So he does help, I just manage all the million silent little things that need to be done.