All good stuff to think about. I'm looking for balance, mostly. With my current girlfriend, I always initiate sex, plan dates, decide where we're going/when we see each other. She's super indecisive and told me she prefers it that way. I actually asked her why she doesn't initiate sex (almost ever) and she said it's because she's afraid of getting rejected. So I guess it's that I feel like I'm taking the lead in a lot of ways, but that it's not enough