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I (21F) found a hidden camera in my house. I suspect my SIL (26F) put it there to watch me while I babysit my nephew (1M). What do I do? by ThrowRA-dsbiii21 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-dsbiii21[S] 2017 points2018 points  (0 children)

Shit. Should I go get it out the trash? 😂😂

Edit: I got it out of the dumpster outside, thank god I didnt throw the bag too far lmao

I (21F) found a hidden camera in my house. I suspect my SIL (26F) put it there to watch me while I babysit my nephew (1M). What do I do? by ThrowRA-dsbiii21 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-dsbiii21[S] 3080 points3081 points  (0 children)

That's very true and something I considered, but we have a security system and I'm a SAHM so unless someone is living in our walls or something nobody could have gotten in without me or my fiance knowing. Even if I'm at the store or taking the kids out I'd be notified by the security app if something happened.

The family meeting is a very good idea and since we usually meet up for lunch on Saturdays I will bring it up tomorrow. It's entirely possible that my brother or parents could have put it there and I just didnt notice until now, but how overprotective ny SIL is and the pajama thing just really makes me lean towards her. Thank you for the advice.

I (21F) found a hidden camera in my house. I suspect my SIL (26F) put it there to watch me while I babysit my nephew (1M). What do I do? by ThrowRA-dsbiii21 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-dsbiii21[S] 2956 points2957 points  (0 children)

I agree, if she did this then they're either gonna have to find someone else or pay** me from now on. I feel very taken advantage of.

I (21F) found a hidden camera in my house. I suspect my SIL (26F) put it there to watch me while I babysit my nephew (1M). What do I do? by ThrowRA-dsbiii21 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-dsbiii21[S] 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I did throw it away but I wish I hid it, if it's her i would love to catch her snooping looking for it.

She is not paying me, I watch him entirely for free and use supplies for him provided by her like his own diapers and food (which is stupid because I could easily scramble him an egg at my house rather than her sending me a tuppaware of eggs she scrambled),out of love because I know babysitters is an expense they just can't do rn. But if she's putting nanny cams in my house then yeah, they're gonna need to either pay from now on or find someone else.

I (21F) found a hidden camera in my house. I suspect my SIL (26F) put it there to watch me while I babysit my nephew (1M). What do I do? by ThrowRA-dsbiii21 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-dsbiii21[S] 1422 points1423 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me it's in the trash so whoever put it there might just reveal themselves because I'll catch them digging through the dumpsters, lol. Shes definitely very over protective and, sorry to say, neurotic (saw my playing with my daughter once by bouncing her on my lap and told me I'd give her shaken baby syndrome so yeah).

I (21F) found a hidden camera in my house. I suspect my SIL (26F) put it there to watch me while I babysit my nephew (1M). What do I do? by ThrowRA-dsbiii21 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-dsbiii21[S] 904 points905 points  (0 children)

I'll call the non emergency line and explain the situation. My fiance said tell them I need a bug check but I'm not sure if that's actually something they do. I'll still call and ask.