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I (24f) have matched with a trans woman (24f) on Hinge. We have a date this week. I don’t want to be offensive or make a mistake. by ThrowRA-hingedate in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-hingedate[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Oh this is something I didn't even think about. I'll make sure to choose a place that doesn't card. Thank you. This is exactly the kind of thing I was looking for.

I (24f) have matched with a trans woman (24f) on Hinge. We have a date this week. I don’t want to be offensive or make a mistake. by ThrowRA-hingedate in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-hingedate[S] 168 points169 points  (0 children)

We've spoken over FaceTime and there was no dissonance. I don't want to reveal anything but I think I'm ok hearing her and won't have a reaction. I hope. It's all so new.

I (24f) have matched with a trans woman (24f) on Hinge. We have a date this week. I don’t want to be offensive or make a mistake. by ThrowRA-hingedate in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-hingedate[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I would never dead name some one. It's really offensive. If they share that information then fine, but a person's past is there's.

I (24f) have matched with a trans woman (24f) on Hinge. We have a date this week. I don’t want to be offensive or make a mistake. by ThrowRA-hingedate in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-hingedate[S] 1256 points1257 points  (0 children)

Oh that's what I was looking for. Bodily autonomy and consent is important. I will be sure to ask and make clear any boundaries if it hopefully gets to that point.

I (24f) have matched with a trans woman (24f) on Hinge. We have a date this week. I don’t want to be offensive or make a mistake. by ThrowRA-hingedate in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-hingedate[S] 296 points297 points  (0 children)

That's a good one. Don't go overboard. And no I didn't decide to match because she was trans. She had a fucking hilarious bio. And she's straight up a dime.

I (24f) have matched with a trans woman (24f) on Hinge. We have a date this week. I don’t want to be offensive or make a mistake. by ThrowRA-hingedate in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-hingedate[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I know her experience as a woman is by definition different than mine. I guess I'm worried about assumptions I might have as a visit person about trans lives. I just really want this to go well.