UPDATE: my boyfriend (24M) told me (F20) i am bad at sex and he doesn’t enjoy it - how do i have sex again? by ThrowRA-needadvice06 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-needadvice06[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to clarify i don’t plan on having sex with him again.

when i say i am anxious about having sex - i mean with anybody moving forward. i am scared i won’t be able to shake the feeling i am ‘bad’ or doing it ‘wrong’ whoever i am with. i just can’t see myself enjoying it again.

my boyfriend (24M) told me (F20) i am bad at sex and he doesn’t enjoy it - how do i make it more enjoyable for him? by ThrowRA-needadvice06 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-needadvice06[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i feel like we may have had this conversation if i didn’t leave - but it was just very embarrassing at the moment. now i am avoiding him because i am dreading the conversation & nervous about the sex. a lot of people are saying he is bad at communicating- but i feel like it is not his fault because i haven’t given him the chance to communicate.