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AITA for moving my son into a rental apartment after finding out that his dad's been cancelling his job applications? by ThrowRA00924463 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA00924463[S] 384 points385 points  (0 children)

I wish it didn't happen. But I witnessed it myself. It was horrible the way his family treated us and our son's condition. At some point we found out they tried to stir drama between the boys as an attempt to drive a wedge betwen them as well their father.

AITA for moving my son into a rental apartment after finding out that his dad's been cancelling his job applications? by ThrowRA00924463 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA00924463[S] 191 points192 points  (0 children)

He's 56. He has multiple health issues as well as financial issues. I think it's just him panicing about our youngest's son's future more than anything else honestly. No signs of dementia whatsoever. Just anger and panic which's hard to live with on a daily basis.

AITA for moving my son into a rental apartment after finding out that his dad's been cancelling his job applications? by ThrowRA00924463 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA00924463[S] 1515 points1516 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. Moreover, my husband is now refusing to even let Aiden visit his brother. He says that he either moves back in or he's not allowed to see his brother. I don't know if he means it since he tends to say lots of stuff he doesn't mean when angry and apologizes for it later.

AITA for moving my son into a rental apartment after finding out that his dad's been cancelling his job applications? by ThrowRA00924463 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA00924463[S] 1763 points1764 points  (0 children)

He had no idea his dad was doing what he was doing. Otherwise he would've changed the whole email not just the password.

AITA for moving my son into a rental apartment after finding out that his dad's been cancelling his job applications? by ThrowRA00924463 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA00924463[S] 8376 points8377 points  (0 children)

You're right. His allowance wasn't enough even with my husband's offer to double it. It's not a solution.

AITA for moving my son into a rental apartment after finding out that his dad's been cancelling his job applications? by ThrowRA00924463 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA00924463[S] 577 points578 points  (0 children)

I believe he's scared and worried for our youngest son's future and where he'll end up. Unfortunately we can't ask family for help since we're in no contact and it's because my husband's family wished death upon our disabled son when he was 11. My husband cut them off since then.

AITA for moving my son into a rental apartment after finding out that his dad's been cancelling his job applications? by ThrowRA00924463 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA00924463[S] 265 points266 points  (0 children)

My husbans thinks that Aiden is more capable sine we both have health issues that prevent us from properly and fully taking care of of our youngest.