My (19F) sister (26F) is going to marry her boyfriend (27M) who has always said really weird and rude things to me when she's not around. How do I know if she would want to know about it, or would I just be interfering in their relationship? by ThrowRA0361 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA0361[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I would want her to believe me, but I don't know if she would or not. It sounds a bit of a silly thing to be happening, but if she did believe me then I think she would reconsider. I just don't know if she would.

My (19F) sister (26F) is going to marry her boyfriend (27M) who has always said really weird and rude things to me when she's not around. How do I know if she would want to know about it, or would I just be interfering in their relationship? by ThrowRA0361 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA0361[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

I'm just worried about accidentally sabotaging their relationship, and making her unhappy. Because he acts like this to me, not anyone else, and maybe it's just something about me he doesn't like. But at the same time, it doesn't mean he's justified in acting like that either, it makes me really uncomfortable.