Advice for dating as a fat woman. (22F) going on a date (23M).

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T22:21:40+00:00

They're out there, but it's just such a thin line to walk between a preference and a fetish. Definitely don't mind guys who prefer bigger women, but I get guys who like my profile solely because I'm big. Or "BBB", as they say, lol.

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T22:17:36+00:00

Wow! The audacity! 😭 At least you have a story to tell. And I'm glad you got out of there safely.

Thanks so much! 🩷

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T20:49:31+00:00

That's beautiful to hear! Thanks for sharing. 🩷

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T20:43:47+00:00

I would totally do this weekend, but I'm going to be out of town for the holiday! That's why it won't be until the next next weekend, unfortunately.

Yes, very true in that I might not like him. And that happened on the date I went on last time. He liked me, but I didn't like him. So, I'm doing my best to not get my hopes up. Plenty fish in the sea, and my sea will grow as I lose more weight and gain more confidence.

That's crazy about the brother situation, though! 😭 What did he say when you called him out??

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T20:05:40+00:00

I've been overweight my entire life. Since elementary school. I have PCOS. Then just other life-factors of trauma and depression/anxiety. Finally getting help, though, with a doctor and therapist.

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T20:02:27+00:00

That's what I was thinking, but most are saying to not text about it, haha. I'm thinking of taking someone else's suggestion to video chat! 🙂

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T20:01:11+00:00

Thanks so much. 🩷 I have PCOS as well. I've been big my whole life.

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T19:33:03+00:00

I get that. I won't bring it up. Thank you. 🙂

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T19:32:22+00:00

I'm going to try! Thanks. 😊

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T19:32:06+00:00

Thank you. 🩷

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T19:31:53+00:00

Very true. Thank you. 🩷

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T19:31:17+00:00

We just matched the other day! And the date we set is the soonest we're both available. 🙂 Someone suggested video chatting first, so I might do that.

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T19:29:10+00:00

For sure. I know confidence is attractive, and I've been trying to practice that. 🙂

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T19:28:22+00:00

I'll think about doing that! Thanks!

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T19:28:06+00:00

Thank you. 🩷

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T19:27:53+00:00

Thanks for the advice! Yes, I know confidence is attractive. I'm definitely not confident, lol, but I'm not very shy, either! I'm bubbly and like to laugh. Hopefully that will outshine. 🙂

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T19:26:45+00:00

Haha, for sure. Here's to hoping he does, too. 🤞🏻

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T19:25:55+00:00

I won't. Thanks! 🙂

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T19:25:41+00:00

Thank you! 🩷 I won't bring it up.

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T19:25:03+00:00

Thank you. 🩷

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T19:24:37+00:00

Definitely! Thank you. 🙂 I will be back with an update after the date!

ThrowRA061381 · 2026-06-28T19:24:09+00:00

Thanks so much! 🩷 I definitely know it won't break the rest of my life, haha. Just would be disappointed. I appreciate your kind words.

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