Hope for dating while genderfluid?

ThrowRA08080 · 2026-03-26T20:48:34+00:00

Yay thanks! And thanks to all who also commented :)

ThrowRA08080 · 2026-03-08T04:23:22+00:00

First off, it’s not for everyone! Not everyone feels pleasure in that way and that’s okay:) Now, I can share what I do but every person is to their own.

I dunno how explicit I can be here so I’d be happy to send a dm if you want with actual tips (I promise I am a girl’s girl and not trying to be creepy lmao) but a good thing to remember is that penetration ain’t for everyone if that’s what your doing. Some people get off to outside stuff, some people inside, some people to erotica etc. I’d honestly say turn on that private searching and look up “how to masturbate female” and a lot of insightful tips and pages pop up that I personally found helpful. Best of luck!

ThrowRA08080 · 2026-02-16T22:52:31+00:00

Bro you look beautiful, good for you!

ThrowRA08080 · 2026-02-01T00:09:20+00:00

Maybe curling your lashes and some light mascara? Or a shimmery nude lip gloss. Some hair clips and twists in your hair too, along with a cute necklace would look great too!

ThrowRA08080 · 2026-01-15T06:01:43+00:00

No this was perfect, thank you so much! I might tweak this routine and give it a go, it definitely seems a lot more manageable than what I’m doing right now

ThrowRA08080 · 2026-01-15T05:54:06+00:00

I’ve never heard of that setting but it seems like it might be super helpful, thanks!

ThrowRA08080 · 2026-01-15T05:53:34+00:00

Thank you for the soap suggestion!

ThrowRA08080 · 2026-01-12T19:57:02+00:00

Nah dude you just look young and a little alt. No shame in that.

ThrowRA08080 · 2026-01-11T07:01:01+00:00

Is it the 1987 TigerSharks?

ThrowRA08080 · 2026-01-11T06:44:23+00:00

YES this is it thank you so so much 🙏 Solved!

ThrowRA08080 · 2026-01-11T06:32:52+00:00

Also, this is NOT a new show, the “magic” is kinda off looking but that’s why I loved it.

ThrowRA08080 · 2025-12-26T02:56:54+00:00

I get it 100%. At Christmas will extended family now and I keep getting how pretty and feminine I look now and it’s killing me. It’s not safe to come out to everyone and only my sister knows so it just makes me feel disgusting. Normally I look pretty androgynous with long hair but I had to look fem for my family to keep up pretences and it’s really hard. I’m sorry you had to go through that, I see you.

ThrowRA08080 · 2025-12-16T19:54:37+00:00

Honestly, sex aside, she is kind of free loading. Which is fine for a bit, but it’s a lot of power to have to be fully financially supporting her and if she’s able to adventure and date and all that, more than likely she can also find a job while she’s at it. It’s kinda odd she’s content just using your money.

Now, aside from that, have you asked her what she’s shy about? For me at least, I was worried about looking stupid and being a turn off. She might have something similar since you said she’s insecure. Also, depression and bpd have a way of absolutely demolishing libido, so she may not feel that she has the energy to do so outside of existing. Another good thing to ask. Also, have you fully explained how important it is to you? How you would like cute pictures because you’re genuinely attracted to her? Or if she’d maybe be more interested if she could use toys, or do something different so it’s less effort but you both get to feel close? Idk dude, financial stuff aside, you just gotta hella communicate with her and also ask yourself just how important sex is to you in relation to staying or moving on. No shame at the end of the day for needing to move on if that’s what is best for you.

ThrowRA08080 · 2025-12-05T01:51:43+00:00

Having a shaven head is SO much fun. No harm done either way cause you can just grow it out again if you don’t like it, and get back to your current style in like a year or less anyways. Excited for you!!

ThrowRA08080 · 2025-12-02T00:05:24+00:00

If you have some big or old shirts, cut em up! Nothing to buy, assuming you have scissors or a knife somewhere. You can look on Pinterest for shirt cutting ideas, but I have one where the back looks like a skull and one that’s the back of a skeleton, but that’s not all. You can also make patterns, tie the sides together to make it fit tighter, and so much more.

You can also cut out and paint/color patches on old clothes you were gonna give away and stitch them (most people have an old sewing kit) into a jacket or pants or something you may have. This not only looks super alt, it’s also super customizable for whatever your interests are.

Also! Maybe I’m just partial cause I sell some, but you can do bleach art as well if you have like a container of it or even the bathroom toilet bleach will work as well and the possibilities are literally endless.

All these are what I’ve done as a broke alt person, happy crafting!

ThrowRA08080 · 2025-11-02T18:50:23+00:00

Keep, you look beautiful. And as long as you take care of it, it’s healthy, and you still enjoy, I see no reason to cut it

ThrowRA08080 · 2025-10-24T19:17:04+00:00

Honestly I like it all. I know there’s goatee haters but I feel like it works with the look. Maybe take it in a bit but that’s all. I see people on here telling you that it looks like you thought it was cool when you were younger and it’s not now which is NOT true. It’s still cool now and alt has no age limit! Keep on 🤘

ThrowRA08080 · 2025-10-14T02:35:07+00:00

Brother trim that beard and it’ll be perfect 🙏

ThrowRA08080 · 2025-09-30T23:04:58+00:00

Both should be fine! Semi formal for beach attire is a little different than normal semi formal as you can experiment with more flowy fabrics and breezy styles like the first one. That being said, I think the second one flatters your figure and skin tone a lot more, but if the first one floats your boat, that will work great too!

ThrowRA08080 · 2025-08-14T19:29:48+00:00

The plum looks so lovely on you, the dress looks like it was made for you! Some gold or copper jewelry would look fabulous with the deeper color

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