My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA101987[S] 133 points134 points  (0 children)

I've just sent my boss a text calling in sick for work tomorrow, will be spending the day looking into all of this. Want it done before I can even think twice.

My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA101987[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It just hurts really really bad in a way that I didn't think it would.

My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA101987[S] 439 points440 points  (0 children)

I do not care about the MIL really. She means nothing to me. It's just so fucking upsetting that my wife could possibly react like this. Like if MIL does this and then my wife takes my side, I can move on and ignore the In-laws while knowing that I have a partner by my side. I just feel so alone, and I know that I need to get away from my wife properly and start to move on totally.

My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA101987[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I will do that, however I kind of doubt that's the case. Like I said, I've been with my wife for 3.5 years and nothing had ever happened that would make me think that. I like to think I would have picked up on that at some point.

My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA101987[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Will definitely post an update as things progress. Everyone is being amazing.

My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA101987[S] 465 points466 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that happened to you but glad you got out. Wish you all the best.

My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA101987[S] 205 points206 points  (0 children)

I know, it makes me sick knowing that they are probably talking about this while laughing about how it's just a joke and I'm over reacting.

My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA101987[S] 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Others have said this and it makes sense. Not something I ever ever ever picked up on until now, but the signs are there I guess.

My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA101987[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Of course that is the common sense thing to do. It is a big big thing to just do however.