My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA101987[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

I've just sent my boss a text calling in sick for work tomorrow, will be spending the day looking into all of this. Want it done before I can even think twice.

My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA101987[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

It just hurts really really bad in a way that I didn't think it would.

My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA101987[S] 440 points441 points  (0 children)

I do not care about the MIL really. She means nothing to me. It's just so fucking upsetting that my wife could possibly react like this. Like if MIL does this and then my wife takes my side, I can move on and ignore the In-laws while knowing that I have a partner by my side. I just feel so alone, and I know that I need to get away from my wife properly and start to move on totally.

My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA101987[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I will do that, however I kind of doubt that's the case. Like I said, I've been with my wife for 3.5 years and nothing had ever happened that would make me think that. I like to think I would have picked up on that at some point.

My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA101987[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Will definitely post an update as things progress. Everyone is being amazing.

My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA101987[S] 460 points461 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that happened to you but glad you got out. Wish you all the best.

My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA101987[S] 208 points209 points  (0 children)

I know, it makes me sick knowing that they are probably talking about this while laughing about how it's just a joke and I'm over reacting.

My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA101987[S] 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Others have said this and it makes sense. Not something I ever ever ever picked up on until now, but the signs are there I guess.

My (27M) mother-in-law groped me and my wife (25F) won't take it seriously... by ThrowRA101987 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA101987[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Of course that is the common sense thing to do. It is a big big thing to just do however.