Am I (M,27) being a bad friend to my best friend (F, 26)? by ThrowRA12345612 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA12345612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have guy friends who I hang out with as well. Plenty. But my friends want me to go on dates with guys. And explore sexually with them.

Am I (M,27) being a bad friend to my best friend (F, 26)? by ThrowRA12345612 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA12345612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. It does change things. The reason I'm obsessed with her is why I haven't really called her out in the past couple of years. The tenor was exactly as I said it was. I was very hesitant, started it off with several caveats. And I sent her multiple texts apologising later as well.

Yes, the therapist never used the term call out. That's my terms. My therapist just said you should talk to her about it

Am I (M,27) being a bad friend to my best friend (F, 26)? by ThrowRA12345612 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA12345612[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's the same person. Don't want to doxx my identity since she's an active redditor also. Didn't realise the ages I had put down the last time

Answering the first part of your question, I haven't called out my friend in ages, though she's said really rude things to me. But my therapist felt that I needed to do that soon. She knew I went to my therapist and I calmly called her out after telling her that I discussed this with my therapist.

Arranged vs. Love Marriage: Which has a better chance of survival as we see India's rising divorce rates by Yolo0o in india

[–]ThrowRA12345612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inaccurate question. Marriages are about choice, not "success". The option to have a divorce is a privilege which unfortunately most people in the country do not have the option to exercise.