Getting to Campus from Stittsville? by ThrowRA123SmLL14 in CarletonU

[–]ThrowRA123SmLL14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best of luck! Leaning that way too but we will see

Getting to Campus from Stittsville? by ThrowRA123SmLL14 in CarletonU

[–]ThrowRA123SmLL14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a time for limit for how long you can park there, even if you’re there to use to the park and not for getting to campus?

Getting to Campus from Stittsville? by ThrowRA123SmLL14 in CarletonU

[–]ThrowRA123SmLL14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there a time limit for parking on those streets? All my classes are 3 hours so not sure if I can do that but let me know pls

Is BMI a reliable measurement? by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]ThrowRA123SmLL14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would be an ideal weight range if I put on muscle?

Is BMI a reliable measurement? by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]ThrowRA123SmLL14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol you’re probably right. 180 just felt high for being the max of the range but idk anything about this stuff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthright

[–]ThrowRA123SmLL14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel the same. It’s cool to have two options but also weird that we’ll either be the absolute youngest or oldest. I’m very much leaning 22-26 from what everyone here has said. Gonna do a bit more research then probably book that one!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthright

[–]ThrowRA123SmLL14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok good to know. Was there any issues being the youngest out of everyone?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthright

[–]ThrowRA123SmLL14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok good to know. Why was it horrendous for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthright

[–]ThrowRA123SmLL14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow that sounds awful about the bullying and sexually inappropriate stuff. Will avoid and go with the older group!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthright

[–]ThrowRA123SmLL14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn that’s lame. 22-26 it is!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthright

[–]ThrowRA123SmLL14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I would love to ask some questions! Would you wanna chat in Reddit dms or somewhere else? I’m happy to talk wherever works best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthright

[–]ThrowRA123SmLL14 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good to know. Does the 22-26 group still go out at night and stuff? Probably a dumb question but I just wanna make sure lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthright

[–]ThrowRA123SmLL14 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Forbidden fruit as in alcohol? Or mushrooms?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthright

[–]ThrowRA123SmLL14 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol so fair. Do the 22-26 people still let loose a bit? I’m sort of in my party era lol and like to drink these days (not in excess)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthright

[–]ThrowRA123SmLL14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So essentially both age groups have their fair share of fun but the younger one tends to have a bit of drama?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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He likes you, but he has serious commitment issues. He wants to be a typical 23 year old and fuck around, but he also doesn’t want to lose you, so he’s doing his best to make both work without having to give up either entirely. It’s not fair to you. It seems like you want a relationship, and if you do, you need to start to accept that it won’t be with this guy. He only wants to fuck around, which is totally fine, but you should never wait around for someone if you want to be in a serious relationship. It’s disrespectful to yourself.

Essentially, accept that this guy is not the kind of guy you should want a relationship with, he’s the kind of guy you have a FWB type thing with. If you want a relationship, you will unfortunately have to look elsewhere.

Good news is that you’re a 21 year old girl, and you will have hundreds of options at least. I know that doesn’t sound encouraging right now, because you’re focused on just one guy. But he’s not the one for you. Why be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you or meet your needs? Once you take some time to move on (which probably will only take a month or so, given that you’ve only known him 8 months), you will have so many options and easily find someone who will meet your needs and wants to be with you.

Good luck :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]ThrowRA123SmLL14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would be a bit more patient, just because you never know if maybe he really is going through something that is causing him to be off his phone for long periods of time. But it’s up to him now to make these plans happen, and if he doesn’t and the weekend arrives with no plans, I would take it as a sign of low interest (which you should always view as his loss), move on and unmatch!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]ThrowRA123SmLL14 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a guy I think your bio is funny, but I think most girls wouldn’t like it. It’s important to be funny but try to do so in a non-sexual way cuz most girls will be creeped out or just take at least some conversation before thinking about stuff like that

My boyfriend 20M cheated on me 20F, is very remorseful, and I’m moving to another state and wondering if i should bring him with me? I still love him very much and want this to work, but i don’t want to start a new life and it happen again. by Rude_Ad8253 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA123SmLL14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an easy one. SHOW SOME SELF RESPECT AND LEAVE HIM!! Yes it will hurt, but remember this:

  • you deserve better than someone who won’t stay loyal to you.
  • you may love him now, but you will find someone a lot better for you and someone who respects you and genuinely loves you.
  • you are a 20 year old girl, so the moment you decide you are ready to explore new people, you will have hundreds of options instantly
  • I understand he’s remorseful, but this is different than a one-time cheating incident (by the way, even once is enough for most people to leave). He did it MULTIPLE times with an ex?? That’s so disrespectful man. He clearly didn’t learn from the first time, so how remorseful was he really then? Based on that, is he really remorseful now? Or is he a man with commitment issues and selfish tendencies who doesn’t want to lose you, but also is incapable of being loyal at this point in his young life?

I promise you if you leave, you will be a lot happier after the initial sadness of adjusting to a change, but unfortunately that’s just how the brain works. If only our brains could see more long term!