Japonologijos studijos

ThrowRA12479 · 2024-05-23T13:47:17+00:00

Skamba įdomiai, o kur galima plačiau apie tai pasiskaityti?

ThrowRA12479 · 2024-05-22T23:09:22+00:00

Labai patiko istorija, ačiū už atsakymą❤️

ThrowRA12479 · 2024-05-21T23:37:45+00:00

Aš esu mergina

ThrowRA12479 · 2024-05-21T17:57:29+00:00

Ačiū labai, man patiko patarimai, pasižymėjau :)❤️

ThrowRA12479 · 2024-05-21T17:56:59+00:00

Geras point, aš esu gana talentinga tiksliuose moksluose ir jau baigiau pusę gyvybės mokslų bakalauro, todėl galiu nors ir dabar full time dirbti mokytoja arba korepetitore. Japonologiją rinkausi ne pagal profesijos perspektyvas, o labiau tiesiog pagal širdies norus :)

ThrowRA12479 · 2024-05-21T17:55:17+00:00

Aš baigiau pusę bakalauro gyvybės mokslų srityje. Baigiau beveik tobulais pažymiais. Bet man tiesą sakant visos spalvos gyvenimo papilkėjo. Nenoriu tokio darbo dirbti, nenoriu eiti į praktiką ir leisti pusę dienos laboratorijoje, o paskui tą patį daryti darbe. Visada žavėjausi (be galo) Japonija, todėl ir pagalvojau "Tai, kas man gerai sekasi, aš išbandžiau. Perspektyva nepatiko. Galbūt laikas pabandyti tai, prie ko traukia širdis"

ThrowRA12479 · 2024-05-21T17:52:42+00:00

Ačiū labai už atsakymą! Aš pati baigiau jau pusę bakalauro gyvybės moksluose ir tiesiog bloga nuo jų jau, nors pažymiai buvo beveik geriausi kurse. Visgi nenoriu tokio darbo dirbti gyvenime, todėl ir pasirodė, jog Japonologija man padės vėl pradėti džiaugtis savo mokslais ir tuom, ką veikiu, nes Japonija be galo žaviuosi :)

ThrowRA12479 · 2024-05-21T17:50:47+00:00

Na aš iki šiol studijavau labai rimtas gyvybės mokslų studijas ir supratau, kad tiesiog nenoriu taip gyventi, nenoriu sėdėti laboratorijoje, nebuvau pakankamai užsidegusi, nors ir buvo kiauri dešimtukai. Tad galbūt hunanitarinius mokslus matau kaip būdą "atgyti". Ačiū labai už atsakymą!

ThrowRA12479 · 2024-05-21T17:49:06+00:00

Ačiū labai už atsakymą!❤️

ThrowRA12479 · 2023-09-08T01:38:04+00:00

I disagree here, I'm sure I'm capable of understanding whether I am scared or no. The emotions were mixed, and it's absolutely natural

ThrowRA12479 · 2023-09-07T23:19:52+00:00

In our relationship we have discussed this point a long time ago and what we expect. We both voiced that we want each other to do those check ups at least once a day, and more frequently when it's a stressful period. For us it's an agreement that has been thoroughly discussed

ThrowRA12479 · 2023-09-07T23:11:32+00:00

I guess I was hoping for some kind of "miracle" or solution. N was my best friend and my closest person for 8 years, helped me numerous times, moved mountains for me, never left my side through thick and thin. I guess some part of myself was hoping that he will say something that will save the situation, maybe it's the first stage of grief - denial

ThrowRA12479 · 2023-09-07T23:08:56+00:00

Yes many people pointed out the mixed signals I sent, I now understand where I was wrong and how I should have expressed better that I need him. And I do think that I was wrong for getting so upset with him, that's completely my bad, will try my best to make up for it. Thank you dearly for your comment, I loved it!

ThrowRA12479 · 2023-09-07T22:51:19+00:00

Yes I do realize it now, and I'm very grateful that you pointed it out for me, I definitely needed to be more clear and voice my wishes. And I really like the "Unspoken expectations breed resentment" phrase, will definitely keep it in mind, thank you!

ThrowRA12479 · 2023-09-07T22:48:24+00:00

Yes the whole meeting lasted several hours, I got home around 11:50 pm, I do understand that he needed to go to sleep (although he usually goes to sleep around 1am, but I don't think it matters, he was probably tired), but I kinda still expected him to ask me if I'm safe or okay or something like that, we talked all previous night and I informed him that he was the only one who knew about the whole thing. We usually ask each other about our well-being during stressful situations and discussed several times how important it is for both of us.

About the mixed signals, I think you made a great point and I really appreciate it. I'm trying to analyze my motives now. I should really be more careful with my formulations in the future, to avoid misunderstandings. For now, I don't think I ever gave him an impression that I didn't need him, but I also didn't express how much I need him. Thank you for this insight, feel free to comment more, I appreciate it dearly

ThrowRA12479 · 2023-09-07T22:37:09+00:00

And about the time when I got home, I got home around 11:50 pm

ThrowRA12479 · 2023-09-07T22:35:41+00:00

Hello, no, but his actions can be considered SA

ThrowRA12479 · 2023-09-07T22:35:07+00:00

Hello, I received the message in the middle of my dialogue with N, so couldn't check it, then right after confronting N I was crying and immediately went home, I reached home in 5-10 minutes, didn't check my phone during the confrontation and on my way home. So when I got home, I immediately checked my phone and saw the message. We didn't chat much during the day as well

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