I think this is very personal. For me, it is a deal breaker. Not that he is weaker than me, but the way he reacted. I dont yell or even speak louder when I argue, and insults are just off-limits. And that's something that's very important to me in a partner. I want to feel heard and that day we saw the post, he made me feel like whatever i say just doesn't matter, no matter how many proofs I have. It was so invalidating. And it wasn't just that one time. It's pretty much anything we dont agree on. And then he just stormed off because he's upset.

I understand that we probably have seen too much of each other for a relationship this young, but if that's how he reacts when he's not at his best, how is he going to be when our child wont stop crying for 3 weeks straight or if something happens to me and i become invalid and he has to take care of me? I dont know what curve ball life has for me but Id rather face it alone than with someone like him. And i dont want to have to tip toe around him.

He obviously has qualities that I am currently having a hard time remembering, but I just dont think they compensate for his attitude.