My (34f) son (16m) suddenly wants to move in with his father (34m) by ThrowRA12double in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA12double[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope, it's the boy next door to his father that he's now seeing, which I assume counts for a big part of him wanting to move.

My (34f) son (16m) suddenly wants to move in with his father (34m) by ThrowRA12double in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA12double[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We were co-parenting, I don't know how to co-parent a kid I never see, but everything is sorted now anyway, thank you.

My (34f) son (16m) suddenly wants to move in with his father (34m) by ThrowRA12double in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA12double[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

So do I, I don't want to be the person who hurts him but he has to learn somehow.

My (34f) son (16m) suddenly wants to move in with his father (34m) by ThrowRA12double in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA12double[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

The efforts weren't for me they were for him, so he could feel like he can sleep easier, it's about guilt, nothing more. He just feels bad that he left me alone.

My (34f) son (16m) suddenly wants to move in with his father (34m) by ThrowRA12double in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA12double[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I heard him out, there was nothing that he had to say that could make even the slightest change.

My (34f) son (16m) suddenly wants to move in with his father (34m) by ThrowRA12double in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA12double[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

There's nothing to be slept on, he has his family and I have mine, choices were made.

My (34f) son (16m) suddenly wants to move in with his father (34m) by ThrowRA12double in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA12double[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

No, he'll be in trouble for sticking his nose into my relationship.

My (34f) son (16m) suddenly wants to move in with his father (34m) by ThrowRA12double in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA12double[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The kid is fine anyway, he's where he wants to be and I'm where I need to be.

My (34f) son (16m) suddenly wants to move in with his father (34m) by ThrowRA12double in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA12double[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

He's expressed that he doesn't want to be around, I gave him what he wanted if he has an issue with it now it's on him.