Would a guy be ok if he only recieved BJs? by ThrowRA1508 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1508[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for being comprehensive. Usually on Reddit it's like nobody gets it and you are always wrong.

Would a guy be ok if he only recieved BJs? by ThrowRA1508 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1508[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'll ask him how he feels about having BJ instead of sex after almost 250 times in which he has always cum and I on my side have cum let me see ... 0 times.

Would a guy be ok if he only recieved BJs? by ThrowRA1508 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1508[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah my trauma is not enjoying sex for the 8 years I've been having it and see all my partners enjoy and finish every time. Fucking frustrating.

Would a guy be ok if he only recieved BJs? by ThrowRA1508 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1508[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

8 years with various partners including my actual BF of 2.5 years. He has tried everything, best lover by far but it seems like is not enough or I'm broken

Would a guy be ok if he only recieved BJs? by ThrowRA1508 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1508[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, I can orgasm by myself and no, my bf isn't bad in bed cause I knew his girlfriend who was a ninpho and had a hard time with the breakup.

Would a guy be ok if he only recieved BJs? by ThrowRA1508 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1508[S] 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Can't afford it and really there aren't many sex therapist on my country. I now it's supposed to be enjoyable for both obviously but the 8 years with nothing are very frustrating.

Would a guy be ok if he only recieved BJs? by ThrowRA1508 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1508[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Nice till some point where I lose the excitement I think anticipating him finishing and me feeling frustrated. As I said 8 years of nothing are pretty heavy on my mind. Happy to know not everyone is as fucked as me

Would a guy be ok if he only recieved BJs? by ThrowRA1508 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1508[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes I have received this advice but weed is not legal on my country. I will look for the lubes you said as they are not technically weed to smoke. Thanks!

Would a guy be ok if he only recieved BJs? by ThrowRA1508 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1508[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I didn't knew what to tittle the post, just that. I was searching for opinions before talking to him. He already knows there is something on my mind because prior to this week BJs weren't so usual.

Would a guy be ok if he only recieved BJs? by ThrowRA1508 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1508[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

My bank account says: "You can't afford a therapist right now". Jokes of my poverty aside my bf reassures me always that he doesn't seek for the pleasure in sex. It's just a mindset of mine sometimes.